thankyou everyone for your reponse. we are meeting in october for two hours and the cruise is not until next year. now all of you have seen my post about being in this scene for 36 years. you all have seen my pic. i have seen two providers this summer ladies you all know. they both can attest to my honesty, sense of humor. i have fun as you can see in the pic. the lady in subject and i have been corresponding every day for the last 10 days and my qualities that i have just mentioned were well received by this lovely lady. i have been out there in life for 62 years and have met many people including many, many, many ladies. i feel very confident that this journey i will be taking with this lady will be rewarding for both of us. i totally understand the provider/hobbiest relationship. however i do believe you can put that in the back ground and just have fun with someone and really bond even for a brief moment in life. i will be honest with you i thought the last provider i saw last week would be it and i told her i did not want to jump around. but this lady i contacted last year just came back into my mine. i already explained this to that last provider. so people everything is really cool. to all you providers who have reponded no doubt if i was younger i would be definitely pursuing you all plus many others. guy has got to know his limitationS. thankyou clint eastwood for that quote. LOL
Have to agree with DT. I have done a few trips with ladies although it has been a few years now since I have. When I did those trips they involved travel that I had to make to major cities for business so when I asked the person if they would like to accompany me I stated that I would pay there way there and we would stay in a upscale hotel. I would provide everything they would need and during the day when I was at meetings they were free to do whatever they wanted. In the evenings I would show them the town and take in the entertainment venues the city offered. In return I would pay two hours per day of their regular rate. All three times the ladies I asked jumped at the chance to go because it was a paid vacation for them. The main difference though was I already had a relationship with each one of them so we knew that we enjoyed spending time together.
I would think that a trip like tommy describes would be awesome and I think that any lady that would accept that would do so knowing that it was in part a vacation for her also.
Keep us posted.