There’s so much to work with here, where do I start. First the thing that I have had to understand is that there is a great difference between my fantasy and the working woman’s reality.
The first thing to accept is it of course those pictures are fakes!!! Really did you think you were going to meet a supermodel at the massage studio on fourth Street! The girls in those photos might be available for a date somewhere. For about $1000 an hour minimum.
Back to the real world, When they are first meeting us they have to protect them selves for their own sake and for us as well. Any working girl who will BB__ anything on the first meeting is certainly going to end up sick and infected and then passing that on to us.
I have found that being patient and having more than one or two visits helps to develop relationship and trust that people are clean. While being covered and not getting into the deep part of kissing is still really a requirement for safety, you should not be surprised that most things are available when more tipping is involved. Just as important is that people like to be treated nicely, so be a good guy (or fake it) and be willing to work your way into special privileges. But, whether you’re going to see somebody again, or if it’s just a one time thing, take what is available and be grateful , at least be nice about it. Most of the tips for great service at the AMPs really low compared to American working girls expect.
Last thing I’ll say is this, everybody can have bad days, I can’t even imagine the attitude I would have if I were in their position dealing with a parade of typical men. So I do try to pay attention and see where that particular person in front of me is coming from and if they don’t look like they’re having a great day I just take the massage and leave. Still good to give a tip because they don’t get any money on that initial price of the massage.
Originally Posted by B Friendly
I'd add also, have some empathy. These girls, just like us, get old but still have bills to pay. If she isn't the supermodel you imagined you deserve, don't treat her badly, its not her fault. I'll generally go along with the massage, talk nicely, and tip her reasonably even if just for the massage. I find the Asian ladies always to be honest and earnest, and they deserve respect and empathy. If there is a piece of shit in the room, its not the lady thats doing this crap work to keep her kid in college or buy a house for her family back home.