Good thread NB and may I add . . .
When you are with a lady let her know if you are a one and done I am experienced enough lady to know how to prolong the experience or be cool with getting it done over and over.
I will tell you what I like and want and I will not lie, you will know when I want things done differently to maximize my pleasure and I want you to do the same
A simple hand to the shoulder as a signal to back off to keep from climax or "slower" . . ."faster" . . .not much has to be done or said to break the mood but convey the message and get both of you the optimal amount of pleasure in the allotted time you both have to give!