Short answer. Do whatever it is that makes you feel good about yourself. Myself, I prefer shorter nails...just in case you're a scratcher lol. Fresh breath...for those passionate kisses, nicely done hair. Short/long doesn't matter...just so I can run my hands through it, love doing that lol. Not to much makeup, I prefer the natural look. Your beauty will come thru in the way you smile, the sparkle in your eyes. But I think more importantly a sense that you want to be in this moment as much as I do.....FYI I like black toenails lol.