Maybe it’s just me, but I took the whole 'Ask about My Specials',
as it is ok ask AFTER you have been screened, have references, and maybe been on here a while ‘I.E. KNOWN’.
I know myself will not ask those type of questions tell I have at least a couple of references.
And I really can’t blame the ladies for being a little cautious about someone who has never even posted on the board before.