Newbie at a Loss

You mean like "hello". I was kind and respectful. Originally Posted by nebur
hmmmm weird. Dunno then.
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  • nebur
  • 09-30-2011, 07:59 PM
hmmmm weird. Dunno then. Originally Posted by Pepper_Springfield
I'm kinda bummed out with the entire situation.
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like tail-gunner joe McCarthy said.."name names!" or just PM me with the name. inquiring minds want to know!
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Just post the name! The suspense is killing me! But seriously, what do you have to lose? If this woman shorted you on service, I somehow doubt she will provide any sort of a viable reference. Just move on, get a ref. or two, and never look back. And like promdate said, inquiring minds want to know!
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  • nebur
  • 09-30-2011, 08:47 PM
Just post the name! The suspense is killing me! But seriously, what do you have to lose? If this woman shorted you on service, I somehow doubt she will provide any sort of a viable reference. Just move on, get a ref. or two, and never look back. And like promdate said, inquiring minds want to know! Originally Posted by Marcus78
I will not for fear of retribution. I will say that promdate has been with her.
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It would be good to post a review and if she is upset about it she may call you back to complete the job.

Also these are not all encounters that MUST involve touching, some guys just want a new friend to talk to and not nag.

YOU MUST BE CLEAR AS TO WHAT YOU WANT.....

SIR
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I will not for fear of retribution. I will say that promdate has been with her.
Yeah, but Promdate is a he-slut. That encompasses like 90% of all providers in SA! LOL Could you at least PM me then?
Yeah, but Promdate is a he-slut. That encompasses like 90% of all providers in SA! LOL Could you at least PM me then? Originally Posted by Marcus78
Yes, promdate is a lil slut LOL But anyway, yes, maybe she can make it up
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I will not for fear of retribution. I will say that promdate has been with her. Originally Posted by nebur
Develop a backbone then come back to the hobby or you will be taken advantage of again and again.
I'll play devils advocate...

The OP has to shoulder some of the blame; at any time during the wonderful chat did you convey what you wanted?
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  • nebur
  • 09-30-2011, 09:25 PM
Yes, promdate is a lil slut LOL But anyway, yes, maybe she can make it up Originally Posted by Pepper_Springfield
Well I really dont want to deal with it. What's done is done.
Look at my very first review from a BP "escort" that just took me for time. You learn a lot from the experienced people here. You need to remember this isn't dating and you aren't taking things slow. Convo is fine, but this is when it's okay to say "So, let's see them titties!" be respectful, but firm in what you want.
lots and lots of people have posted already and have given solid advice and of course, like anything else -- you can take it or leave it...

I see you have Premium Access sans reviews so I am assuming you paid perfectly good money to become involved here---again your personal choice...

the way this thread began and has continued is amazing in that it has become totally boring to me and a waste of time since there is really little or any value to the community because quite simply you "don't want to deal with it".....

I wish you well in your further ventures and hope the television is tuned into something you enjoy during your sessions......

Harsh - maybe..... Direct - you better believe it......

and now back to watching a pretty damn good college football team....
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  • Magix
  • 09-30-2011, 09:40 PM
Seriously, at this point, either post a review, or move on to the next person. You got taken advantage of or didn't make yourself clear, it sucks.

But it sounds like you don't want to help any other potential newbie, that may think that provider will be a great first experience (and may end up in a similar situation).

So, the provider will go on (probably without a second thought about it), and you either will or won't.
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  • nebur
  • 09-30-2011, 09:47 PM
I'll play devils advocate...

The OP has to shoulder some of the blame; at any time during the wonderful chat did you convey what you wanted? Originally Posted by luv2daty
Yes but she continued talking about other things. This girl can talk.