Deposits....

I’ve said this before, but the funny thing is many guys on here that preach about never sending a deposit have no problems sending one to me. Then, of course they don’t write a review about it. LMFAO. Do proper research because there are people using fake pictures(stolen from instagram models) to run deposit scams. If the lady has been around for a while, have no issues.

Unfortunately, since the hobby is not “a secret anymore. “There are people who literally set up fake appointments with the intent of never showing up. Alternatively, people make appointments with one provider, but then find someone that’s closer or cheaper and cancel last minute. Times are tough for all of us and we still have bills to pay. However, my main reason for requesting deposit is safety. I won’t give out my address Before hand. But I don’t work out of hotels I keep permanent in calls.

If I have to cancel, I return the deposit. I actually sent $50 to a favorite client of mine when ***I could not make it to our meeting because of a freak hailstorm last spring. Hoping he could at least put that towards a session while he was in town. Of course he did not send a deposit because we have a great relationship :-)

Unfortunately too many dudes take one look at a hot pic and let the little head do all the thinking.

Exactly what Brandofan said. I have regretfully said no to some ladies I would seriously love to see, but there are just things that don't make sense to me. I am a consultant and can demand a retainer when I am engaged. I prefer to be paid when I work, however, not for work to be done in the future. But if someone wants to give me a retainer to establish a legal contract, I'll take it.
As a side, no one has said anything about payment methods. I've never had anyone legitimately tell me why they won't take cash, but it's becoming quite the thing. Now, upfront is a clear scam. But "bring an Amazon gift card when we meet". I question that. How can that be a scam other than asking me to read the numbers and PIN before she will give me the room number. Got any other ideas? Originally Posted by luv2luv

Do your homework - most respectable, professional professionals of integrity have a track record of not screwing people over. You have to understand that we providers get NCNS very frequently. That can be expensive if you have passed on other business as a result or spent money on an incall ... so just talk to a lady who wants a deposit: look at her reviews and understand that some ladies are not scamming: they are trying not to BE scammed!

Just today a Dallas gent tried to give me a deposit ,so when I visit again and I declined to take his deposit this far out from my next visit and he thanked me for that , but I told him I don't have any dates for my next visit .

And he never booked when I was just in town so I Can't take him That Serious so I'm not taking a deposit just to hold on to it.

There is no such thing as a legitimate provider who will not accept cash. That does not exist.

It sounds like you need to vet these ads more before you contact them. Internet scams have been around since the internet; you know what to look for: broken English, random punctuation marks, using words like "dear," pics of a hot woman showing off everything, etc.

the question is still out there - so that guys can avoid looking there - where are you finding these providers who asked/required a deposit??


also, wrt "they won't take cash" - i can see them not wanting to have cash around their place at the end of the day, esp when many providers are asking 400, 500, 1000/hr!!

like brandofan said, they can ask whatever they want. we can reply however we want.

No matter how much established guys preach against it, there will always guys who will still pay deposits so the providers who charge deposits will always have suckers that will prepay. There are several threads on this subject and in each case, guys gripe about being taken and providers who charge deposits always defend it.

The provider rationale is mainly guys waste their time so they charge deposits. Hobbyists get their time wasted as well, why can't they charge deposits to make sure the provider is also serious? How well would that go over with the providers? Then, you have your answer why guys do not like to prepay.

In the end, you cant control what someone else will do. You can lead a horse to water but you cant make it drink. A lot of us here will say no to deposits.. but in the end, its up to the individual if they are willing to take the risk given all the info.


I dont doubt that there are good endings out there with a deposit and all that but those will rarely be bragged about. The ones we will hear about are when a guy got ripped off. In the end... the lady will determine if she wants a deposit and the guys will determine if they will pay it.

There is no such thing as a legitimate provider who will not accept cash. That does not exist.

It sounds like you need to vet these ads more before you contact them. Internet scams have been around since the internet; you know what to look for: broken English, random punctuation marks, using words like "dear," pics of a hot woman showing off everything, etc. Originally Posted by jonas1_2

You are absolutely incorrect. As myself and many other women have mentioned now that this hobby is not a secret anymore. There are definitely men who make fake appointments for the sole purpose of not showing up. Therefore, I will not give out my address without a deposit. I’m still only 25 ;-) but Have been around for the better part of a decade. So has everyone else I know that requires a deposit.

No matter whats said guys will still do deposits successful or failure

Can I ask what purpose a guy would have in making an appointment "for the sole purpose of not showing up"? I've heard some bizarre statements on this site and that one is pretty near the top Truth? I've thought a lot about Dallas Bella and would like to see her. We have things in common: military, for example. But I do have one iron rule and that is: No money before we meet - end of story - final - over and out. As I said before, if I did outcalls I couldn't make that statement because I don't think it's fair to a provider to expect her to pay to travel cross town on the hope there's a client there. But I don't do outcalls. So, sigh, no Dallas Bella in my future.

Can I ask what purpose a guy would have in making an appointment "for the sole purpose of not showing up"? I've heard some bizarre statements on this site and that one is pretty near the top Truth? I've thought a lot about Dallas Bella and would like to see her. We have things in common: military, for example. But I do have one iron rule and that is: No money before we meet - end of story - final - over and out. As I said before, if I did outcalls I couldn't make that statement because I don't think it's fair to a provider to expect her to pay to travel cross town on the hope there's a client there. But I don't do outcalls. So, sigh, no Dallas Bella in my future. Originally Posted by luv2luv

No true hobbyist makes appointments to not show up.

Are there timewasters and scam artists? Sure, but that works both ways and the providers who asks for deposits are trying to eliminate those timewasting guys and/or looking to scam. What does the hobbyist have to combat timewasters and scam artists? Charging the providers deposits and refund them when they show up? Ah I know, most people will say to do his research so he does not get his time wasted or scammed. Maybe the providers should do the same thing and they will not have to charge deposits either.

You are absolutely incorrect. As myself and many other women have mentioned now that this hobby is not a secret anymore. There are definitely men who make fake appointments for the sole purpose of not showing up. Therefore, I will not give out my address without a deposit. I’m still only 25 ;-) but Have been around for the better part of a decade. So has everyone else I know that requires a deposit. Originally Posted by DallasBella

Screening would get rid of those guys. If you require p411 or refs, the guys who are the serial appointment missers lose their p4 access or become pariahs. You don't need a deposit for that.

Maybe all the guys with one review who rave about you should also start mentioning the importance of deposits. Their reviews are very informative and influential. Those guys are so persuasive I'm sure they could convince us all that deposits are the true way.

You guys just don't get it at all ...
NS are from every site around, guys with a lot of reviews and a lot of p411 Okays. (It Just Happens) for what ever reason's.

Yes men will NS no matter how much you screen or get a deposit or cancle last min and when this happens we just can't fill that time spot right now
It Does Happen to some providers /We providers read about it all the time.
I'm sure it happens just as much to men , when a provider is not Well Establish on the most Reliable escort sites!

Ladies now think men are doormats and incredibly stupid. Don't be that person. Never give up real world information and never give a deposit. Most these ladies have to organize a gofundme account to pay for rent if the slightest issue happens. Act like it's your rules and you don't need them. Say no. Say no to any real world info, selfies etc. Just say No. You'll be fine. They will call you or simply scam another person. Won't be you and I promise you there is no known case of anyone dying from not getting pussy. Hope that helps