How does a first timer get a reference?

@ Jessica Eccie Private Messages, that is all I got HA

@ Jessica Eccie Private Messages, that is all I got HA Originally Posted by txborn

So you are looking for a reputable provider who is ok with only communicating through a PM to see you? Maybe you can find a reputable provider who is newbie friendly that is willing to do that for you?? Idk. I prefer to hear a voice on the other end of the line for anyone can be behind a computer screen.
I wish you the best of luck. Be safe and let me know how things go.

@Jessica Just takes one to get the first reference and get going. With OH2 always down, it does make it more difficult searching, since ADs would mention newbie friendly or put an ISO out for my situation, and ECCIE does not have those features anymore. But hey I truly do get what you are saying and just maybe one day I can PM you with a new current reference. I just hope you don't retire before that day comes HA. Take Care

I’m newbie friendly send me a pm or text I have easy screening options

@Jessica Just takes one to get the first reference and get going. With OH2 always down, it does make it more difficult searching, since ADs would mention newbie friendly or put an ISO out for my situation, and ECCIE does not have those features anymore. But hey I truly do get what you are saying and just maybe one day I can PM you with a new current reference. I just hope you don't retire before that day comes HA. Take Care Originally Posted by txborn

I completely understand. I have faith that you will find one. It has been very nice communicating with you through PM though. Just be prepared when it is my turn to get my hands on you..lol!!!
Xoxo,
Jessica

I'm newbie friendly, but that doesn't mean I don't screen. I screen with a smidge of real world information. Some gents are comfortable giving it, and we have a great time. Some men aren't, and that's ok too. I certainly wish them well.

The key is doing your research on a lady to make sure she is established and reputable. Too many are BSC imho.

Lastly, even if a gent buys a p411 subscription but doesn't have OKs for me to contact because he is new, I still ask for that real world information because I don't trust p411 to look at what I look at.

You have to provide some personal info for the first two, DL pic, linked in profile, name, age, and city u live in. Each provider is different.

I would make sure who u get is on P411. Once u get two providers from p411 u can join and use them as reference and get started with Ok’s. Paying for p411 is so worth it cause u don’t have to share personal info with new providers. Most providers will accept p411 profile with Ok’s for verification. I’ve had about 90% success rate with p411 providers not ghosting or flaking. At least the ones that agree to see u. There are some that will not respond but I’m not counting those.

I'm newbie friendly, but that doesn't mean I don't screen. I screen with a smidge of real world information. Some gents are comfortable giving it, and we have a great time. Some men aren't, and that's ok too. I certainly wish them well.

The key is doing your research on a lady to make sure she is established and reputable. Too many are BSC imho.

Lastly, even if a gent buys a p411 subscription but doesn't have OKs for me to contact because he is new, I still ask for that real world information because I don't trust p411 to look at what I look at. Originally Posted by Laura Lynn

You will definitely show these newbies how it is to be treated like a king as they should!
You are the sweetest yet naughty neighbor I love to have!! I highly recommend you to the gentleman who are new! ♥️ You are such a breath of fresh air in this hobby community! HONEST AND DRAMA FREE!!
Xoxo,
Jessica

many girls on eccie do NOT require a reference---just private message the girl on eccie and ask her Originally Posted by Sherry of DFW

1. The OP has reached out to ECCIE girls and found out he needed a reference.

2. The thread "Newbies And The Ladies That Love Them" was removed about a year ago.

3. What the OP is looking for it would be easier to find on a site that has a "Daily Line Up" or an "In Search Of" forum.

4. Most ladies that still have an account on ECCIE have an account on the site that has the aforementioned forums.

2. The thread "Newbies And The Ladies That Love Them" was removed about a year ago.
. Originally Posted by adav8s28

No it wasn’t. Here it is.

https://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1934603

I'm in the same boat. Used to hobby for years (back to the TSML days) but haven't done so in about 10 years. Looking to get back in but it's difficult. Thanks for any pointers!