For the gentlemen who are married or have a significant other -
How would you feel if you found out that your wife, fiancee or girlfriend was seeing an escort for clandestine trysts?
Originally Posted by Nicolette Morgandy
So, is she seeing a
female escort or a
male escort??? If a female, there's not much I can do to compete with that.
If a male, my tool is probably too small to compete.
Honestly, I think we are all in different situations. Mine: my SO is a wonderful person, and I love her a lot. We just haven't had sex in years, and don't have too much of an intimate relationship.
So I know that although she is not meeting my needs, I am not meeting hers, either. Since I hobby, I
intellectually know that she probably has sexual needs I'm not fulfilling. Whether or not I could translate that intellectual knowledge into acceptance of her escorting is a good question. I would hope that I could. But probably wouldn't know for sure until it stares me in the face.