Gents would you please

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I read an articles years ago. Granted, almost impossible to cite it since the gents interviewed only did so anonymously, but it claimed that over 40% of them stated part of the reason why is for the emotional intimacy, even if it's only short lived. I think it's likely true.
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  • R.M.
  • 04-08-2025, 05:09 PM
Thank you gents that shared your truth. I really really respect your input and commend you for it.
I generally don't. In the USA. It's just too much damned hard work for very little in return.


I generally do - in countries that have legalized or decriminalized it.


Marlene Dietrich (look her up) said t so well, circa 1930's:


"In the United States sex is an obsession. In the rest of the world, it is merely a fact."
I do it for the acceptance of my fetishes. I have a solid 3 providers that I frequent quite a bit that know what I am into. They all play a particular role in fulfilling my need.
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I do it for the acceptance of my fetishes. I have a solid 3 providers that I frequent quite a bit that know what I am into. They all play a particular role in fulfilling my need. Originally Posted by madmonk45
That is a very popular reason as well. It's a safe, non-judgmental space. And also can get things that you can't get from real world partners sometimes.
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women when i want and none with my last name.
  • cosoj
  • 04-09-2025, 05:57 PM
Wife doesn’t want sex, my girlfriend doesn’t want sex, and when it builds up, I have to have a younger more attractive outlet.
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  • R.M.
  • 04-09-2025, 06:14 PM
Wife doesn’t want sex, my girlfriend doesn’t want sex, and when it builds up, I have to have a younger more attractive outlet. Originally Posted by cosoj
Replace the girlfriend.Cut out the middle man.
The girlfriend is there for the sex and fun stuff.
She's not doing her assignment.
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I am doing my part to stimulate the economy. It so happens that I am getting stimulated back.
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  • R.M.
  • 04-13-2025, 09:00 AM
^And I think you for that.
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  • R.M.
  • 04-13-2025, 01:37 PM
^And I thank you for that. Originally Posted by R.M.
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The why is really variety if I am being honest. My current is an 8 hour drive away in grad school so that leaves ample time to hit up the strip club or grab a nice massage. Those are my main thing its quick in and out so to speak. Single serving style like Fight Club
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Variety is the spice of life. I like variety.
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I read an articles years ago. Granted, almost impossible to cite it since the gents interviewed only did so anonymously, but it claimed that over 40% of them stated part of the reason why is for the emotional intimacy, even if it's only short lived. I think it's likely true. Originally Posted by Madison of Houston
I found my old post about this!

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My wife died a few years ago and I have desires.