tall & thin Cubana (day) @ Babydolls

Lol Just found out my new girl I am seeing Claudia is married. Nothing on her Insta shows any of that.

I get basic dances from a girl that lets me know she had a husband. Kinda refreshing considering a lot of them lie about it. I don’t really push for any extra stuff cause she’s nice to talk to.

On a happier note, I knew a girl who married her regular and they have kids now.

I have 2 friends who married girls from the old BDD on NW highway back in the day! Still married after 25 years! So it is possible to work out! But in those days I just remember white girls and a few from Russia! No Cuban girls

But this is definitely, looking for love in all the wrong places.

I know one of the suits at a Houston strip club married one of the dancers.


She continued to work there dancing and then one day she caught him cheating on her with another dancer in the club's manager office.


She is such a hypocrite.


Surely he never had any issues or objections with her going into the champagne room with the customers and making 10 of 1000s of dollars each week for the club, for her and for him.

Damn STPAM, was it the apartment in Downtown? Picked her up there quite a few times, she never did invite me inside. Was wondering what sucker got her that place. I didn't know about the BF but she was my personal cum dumpster so didn't care. These Cubans are all the same.

I did OTC with C** you mentioned. She was a dead fish and too exp, didn't know she had a husband.

It wasn't about the money? wut

This is a story of a friendship that I had with a dancer at BD’s Dallas. I know that most of you will not be interested in this, but I am sharing my experience because it was a scheme that I am not familiar with. She works days. She is tall, thin, older, attractive.

I know the types of gals at BD’s. The dance churners, the HJ queens, the VIP and give you nothing, the VIP and give you all, the FS in the chairs upstairs. She presents herself well, better than most Cuban girls. She had a story of a tough life in Cuba, of her crossing into the US during Covid and getting stuck for 2 years, her desire to earn money here and send back to help family. She was single and said no to Cuban guys. She comes across as very open and always says she has nothing to hide. I thought she was a strong, independent Latina. Our relationship grew as we spent a significant amount of time together. Including her house. Texting and talking, seeing each other inside and outside the club.

The next step was serious, she indicated she would sign a prenup as it was not about the money. I know that there is a certain financial support that comes with a dancer from Cuba.

I hired someone to check her out. I found out she crossed the border with a man and has lived with him since arriving. I found out so many other details.

The information i found out shows they were working together as a team to deceive me. He has no work permit or history here.

I have no idea what their master plan was with me. I’d love to hear some insight if any of you have have similar experience or knowledge.

I consider it the best 10k I’ve ever spent to hire a PI, and very fortunate to get out of it as I did. But I’m not signing up for some douchebag to tag along.

Pimp/manager/boyfriend? I’ll never know.

PM me for her name or more details. Originally Posted by Alfred456

I could write a book on this. Alfred, this is reputedly the modus operandi of the Cuban stripper. And for the majority it's probably true. I say that because that's what strippers, Cuban and non Cuban, tell me. Also, I've gone to some parties and get togethers with Cuban strippers, and most of the women are paired up. The most common occupation of the husbands and boyfriends is Uber driver. I suspect some are busting their asses, and more are sitting on their asses. You can do either if you drive for Uber!

One Cuban stripper I know is fat almost to the point of being obese. But she still pulls down $1000 to $1500 a night at a bar in New Mexico, because she bangs five or so men a day. Her husband and father of her child spends a lot of time in their hometown back in Cuba. He's the richest person there. He's built the nicest house in town and drives the nicest car.

If you visit Cuba, you'll find it's desperately poor. Doctors make around $50 a month, mechanics $20. People hustle to survive. There's a Cuban word for people like your girlfriend and her boyfriend. She's a jinitera and he's a jinitero, meaning she's a sex worker and he's probably a hustler. Deception is par for the course for the jinitera. She's out to make a buck, anyway she can. It's part of the culture. And that doesn't reflect negatively on Cubans. If you or I were in the same situation, we'd probably do the same.

Landing a gringo or American of Latin descent as a husband in the USA actually is the goal of many of these women. This applies to the ones who aren't married and living with the fathers of their children. Many will dump their boyfriends and take up with the gringo if he offers her a better, easier life. Initially, yes, she will deceive you. But the Cuban boyfriend may just come out the loser in the longer term.

The chances of making it with a Cuban stripper are better if,

a. She's alone in the USA, without family or a support network
b. She's new to stripping and didn't do a lot of sex work in Cuba.
c. She doesn't have kids and a husband back in Cuba. Although she may be very open to a relationship even if she does.
d. You speak reasonably good Spanish and her English sucks
e. She's not ambitious or smart.

Please note that a gringo who can pave her way in the USA is a very attractive proposition for women who meet criteria "a", "d" and "e". You might not have to supply her with lots of cash if you can just help her get a driver's license, pay for her utility bill by linking it with her debit card, help her find an apartment and a decent immigration attorney, etc. Do that and you've got a leg up on the Cuban boyfriend! And you too can tell her you're an Uber driver working the night shift and sit on your ass instead!

In other words Alfred, it's possible that her boyfriend had no master plan. But she did. Dump him and marry you.

One other thing to watch out for with the Cubanas, as well as other strippers, is that many consume a lot of alcohol and worse. If that's the case it's going to make a relationship all the more difficult.

Anyway, sorry for your experience, and hope the next one turns out much better.

I would never try and date any of the Cuban girls here. Most of them are being trafficked thru having to pay back their passage here.

The stripper’s jobs are to make you feel like they like you… so always remember that… it is a game… don’t get played… do the playing.

Yeah, i made some mistakes. But i learned.

It's hard not to try and connect the dots. Cuba is such a shit hole country. It's probably because its full of shit hole people.

For me, I will never again give the Cubans any respect. I did not know anything about them and always treated them with respect. No mas. I will just shoo them away like a fly before they even have time to ask me for a dance.

It really feels pretty good being out of that situation. I spent so much time with a large group of Cuban girls. It's kind of like take 2 cups ignorance and 1 cup Kardashian and 1 cup Scarface. Throw is all in the blender and watch the shit show.

I'd say there are maybe a handful of "good" Cubans like the Frozen princesses. But they are rare and not something to count on. I stick to white girls although I fear they're going extinct.

Gfealltheway. Nope, dont, do it. If you think about a nice looking girl leaving Cuba for the US. None would do it on their own. They all would only do it with a pimp/manager/boyfriend.

Gfealltheway. Nope, dont, do it. If you think about a nice looking girl leaving Cuba for the US. None would do it on their own. They all would only do it with a pimp/manager/boyfriend. Originally Posted by Alfred456

Yeah, what are the odds that hundreds of random 21-27 yr old Cuban gals would all spontaneously on their own be able to navigate the immigration process and get boob jobs and all land at BabyDolls all on their own? Those odds are damn near zero.

Just to play devil's advocate here. How much intel did the PI provide, any actual video\photo footage of the two together? Did they seem like a romantic couple or could it possibly have been a relative?

Just how trustworthy is this PI? Is it possible for him to have after seeing how motivated you were, intentionally drag out the investigation to fatten up his invoice? Is it possible for him produce a negative report to get you out of the picture and maybe swoop in himself late nights at BDD and woo her with his 10K cash infusion? Just some other angles you might want to check out.