1) Get a disposable phone number, I suggest Google voice you can keep the app on your phone it doesn't look suspicious you can uninstall it and reinstall it your conversation stay there... You can text from it and make phone calls.. You pick a new phone number that's not affiliated with your life .
..never use your personal phone number!
2) If she seems too good to be true and has no references...then she is.
5) Upon entering the room... set it on the desk, so it's out of your mind and it's out of hers. Don't have those conversations When you get to the room ..
.... You already know where to find that info