PS, the thing that gets me is when I ask "Do you have references?" The dumb response is either "What do you mean by references?" or the condescending tone, "Well, I didn't know I needed references for this, what do you need that for?". Sigh!
lol--ditto most guys ask "what's a provider"!
There are many many ways for a gentleman to prove he is legit. Once I had a new client ask me to tune in to a radio station one morning. Turns out he was a local DJ who wanted to say Hi to a new listner, LilRed. It was pretty cool getting a shout out on the radio!!
Holinyx05...Wecome to your new hobby. I am sure the lady of your choice will work something out with you on getting you verified. Just ask her what she would like to know about you and go from there.