This is one thing that his references should have told me

I would have walked his butt to the K-Mart, got a ring for a quarter out the machine, and said it will be 2k to get married. Originally Posted by London Rayne

damn you have the best ideas.

next time!

Send the guy our way and we will get the ring and some more money...
we can really get creative with this one.

That's got to be the funniest crap I have ever heard in hobby world lol. So his religion won't allow sex before marriage, but it WILL allow him to pay a hooker? Priceless! We need to join that coven!

Yet another reason why I don't rely on refs alone, and especially those women who feel saying he is "OK" is enough. If we are tight, you should tell me more than that or don't bother. Originally Posted by London Rayne

I skipped this thread earlier thinking it would be the same ole crap about references. Funny shit LD! wtf!!

LR, you missed the point "So his religion won't allow sex before marriage, but it WILL allow him to pay a hooker?"

They are married and he has just found out how to get pussy cheaply.

An since they are married he no longer considers her a hooker.

That is HILARIOUS!!! (But only from the viewpoint of someone that didn't live it)
I've encountered some strange "rules" from hobbyists, but getting MARRIED to one has so far NOT been one of them!

He voluntarily made it a wife experience.

Yes, the ref could have you told you were going to be married for a bit.

So to make a long story short, a guy of a different nationality came to see me the other day. Perfect gentleman. When I suggested he get more comfy he tells me, "we have to get married first". I replied Come Again? and he says that in his religion before he can take off his clothes or touch a woman intimately they have to get married first. He said he had the credentials to perform the ceremony himself, it would be a temporary one, but as soon as our session was over he would divorce us. Again, I thought that he was joking but he was dead serious. I don't ask for any details when doing a reference check, but his references know damn well they could've mentioned that little tidbit about him. Originally Posted by Luxury Daphne

When I suggested he get more comfy he tells me, "we have to get married first". I replied Come Again? and he says that in his religion before he can take off his clothes or touch a woman intimately they have to get married first. He said he had the credentials to perform the ceremony himself, it would be a temporary one, but as soon as our session was over he would divorce us. Originally Posted by Luxury Daphne

I think this is a Muslim thing actually.

LR, you missed the point "So his religion won't allow sex before marriage, but it WILL allow him to pay a hooker?"

They are married and he has just found out how to get pussy cheaply.

An since they are married he no longer considers her a hooker. Originally Posted by Bull149

You're right...that went right over my head!

Here Daphne, this should give you some insight to what was going on;

http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn...901850_pf.html

Its known as "mutaa" or enjoyment marriage, a temporary union believed by Shiite Muslims to be sanctioned by Islamic law.

Lol I have the meanest frownie-wtf face ever going on right now. Smh @ his reference for leaving that out. I'd have been like "um....one thing though he needs to temporarily "marry" you two before ya'll can have relations". lol....or something like that.

Here Daphne, this should give you some insight to what was going on;

http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn...901850_pf.html

Its known as "mutaa" or enjoyment marriage, a temporary union believed by Shiite Muslims to be sanctioned by Islamic law. Originally Posted by Chica Chaser

very interesting.

Wonder what the guy would think when you hired a lawyer and sued his ass for alimony?
Since you consumated the marriage it should be legally binding..lmao

but on the other side if LE walked in and accussed you of having sex with an escort he could say no shes not shes my wife!!

Its got some good points to it and some bad..lol

He voluntarily made it a wife experience.

Yes, the ref could have you told you were going to be married for a bit. Originally Posted by lisa.lisa0302

Oh no .... Not the wifey experience: give her money; she does nothing; she has headache so no sex; hubbie goes out and finds hooker. Odd, it does seem like a vicious circle.

Chica Chaser....Thanks for posting this...very interesting read.