ummmm..no..not exactly brooke...i have seen many a man that has done certain things with other ladies and they know I dont offer that sorta activity..
yet they will still book with me..I think its more a diff spice that they are gonna go for..they want something diff...
they ask..i say no..they say so and so..I say....
"I ain't so and so..and i'm bout to prove it right now.. sooooo grab your hair cuz its gonna blow up in here!!!!!"
yeah..i say that stuff...they grab onto anything that's grounded..u know to the floor..all..chained..grounded. .whatever..
taint that hard to bring it..im a diff chick..i do things differently that the last girly...
as well I can host a gent within an hour of him calling me regardless where he has seen my ad due to the creativity I invoke within my biz and screening....
I have been around for a few years..(*laugh at a few* cuz its been more than that)..however I look at it as its helping me be a well rounded provider and being able to
work it as only as a well rounded provided can do..
sure..
i fall off every once in awhile...as a previous post points out.. life happens..we all are alive and living beings..life affects us all..
some of the clients really have to work to get with me..but i as well have to work really fr**kin hard to make the time and day with him..its a two way street for those that are serious about this...
..but you can bet your hottest high dollar I'm gonna make it up to that fellow and give him a discount and still warp him beyond his beliefs..why..cuz this is what i do...
I have opened my market up to same day..with in an hour to an hour and a half..1 day prior..2 days in advance..beyond that they cannot book with me..things happen.more often than not that their schedule changes or mine does..
it's life..it happens. Im a short notice kinda gal...
but some ya'll others aren't...and there tain't a thing wrong with that..you do you and be proud of it..
If they want a certain date and time its up to them to keep me refreshed,,and they do,,they pm me..email me and call me to make sure they get that day and that time..and they do..
..also..I do phone as opposed to email..
ha lexxxy... it makes me laugh that you talk about catcalls..(im sure your rollin your eyes right about now)..hahahahhahahahahahhahah oh k....still gonna put it out there ....
Do you know how many men have seen me due to that "catcall"...and still come back to see me...love those guys... cuz they show me luv..and they appreciate that I'm able to see them that short notice..and actually I have captured a few texts of .."rates" gents as repeat "clients"..catcall or not..they be good guys!! That's how they are..that's their personality..
And they may not know it..but I adore them..I know them and I trust them..streets sometimes goes along way in this biz..helps you be able to read folks..
anyways..i took this thread way off target..it will happen with me...but perhaps if you really read my post you'll see its not off target as ya'll think...
any rate..yoyoyodiotoyo!!!:huglove :
- Guest091813
- 10-19-2011, 08:46 PM
- BrookeButtons
- 10-19-2011, 09:03 PM
Um actually I beg to differ with you Anita. I too am not new to this(been a provider for 2 years), nor do I think you trying to talk down on me because you've been around longer is cute nor apperciated.... So I can see why people would roll their eyes.
however, I have been through an angecy which where gents have tried to push things on a lady, and I have been independent and have had a different group of gents push things. Yes I handle my self and simply say that isn't on my menu, but had they did their homework they woulda known that.
Plus a well known gent around these boards... that is into greek, knows I don't do greek. Yet every meeting its brought up!!! So now I don't see that man.
like how my tag line says... like me or dont like me but you sure as hell should respect me.
however, I have been through an angecy which where gents have tried to push things on a lady, and I have been independent and have had a different group of gents push things. Yes I handle my self and simply say that isn't on my menu, but had they did their homework they woulda known that.
Plus a well known gent around these boards... that is into greek, knows I don't do greek. Yet every meeting its brought up!!! So now I don't see that man.
like how my tag line says... like me or dont like me but you sure as hell should respect me.
- Guest091813
- 10-19-2011, 09:08 PM
well sorry you disagree with my thoughts brooke..
"not sure what was appreciated nor cute..?" ya lost me there.....and what they are rollin their eyes about...lost me there too..
but your more than welcome to school me... you think i was talkin down to you??I have no idea where you got that from..
...anyhooooooo...
some men do understand you can get from one and not from another and still would like to see that other..."spices make the world go around"..that fact your having issues with the one guy..well just dns him..as you said but dont put them all in a box cuz thats what they do with others.."they do what ladies allow them to do".... however...most men can actually think outside the box..
"not sure what was appreciated nor cute..?" ya lost me there.....and what they are rollin their eyes about...lost me there too..
but your more than welcome to school me... you think i was talkin down to you??I have no idea where you got that from..
...anyhooooooo...
some men do understand you can get from one and not from another and still would like to see that other..."spices make the world go around"..that fact your having issues with the one guy..well just dns him..as you said but dont put them all in a box cuz thats what they do with others.."they do what ladies allow them to do".... however...most men can actually think outside the box..
- Jon Colden
- 10-19-2011, 09:10 PM
Brooke,
I think your initial point was that "TCB" cuts both ways, applying equally to the men and to the women who particiapte in this. I agree wholeheartedly.
In reality, what we sometimes term "TCB" in shorthand here is merely basic human courtesy, something that should be expected in all social interactions. If I write to you, I would expect some sort of reply, absent inappropriate conduct on my part. And you should expect the same of me. It's simply being polite.
It really has little to do with the "business" aspect of our interactions, I think.
On what seems like your secondary point, references, screening, pre-screening, etc., I feel that, sometimes, there is an over-reliance on references, usually the two-reference rule. There are other ways of screening safely and adequately, perhaps even more reliably. Always insisting on one or two references isn't the best approach to take.
I'm sure you already know the reasons why. Many providers don't respond, some aren't fully honest, time is lost in the process, and with that lost time goes lost opportunity. I'm willing to bet that you actually only trust a small handful of provider references; most of us would feel that same way.
Having an alternate, more expedient, form a validation would seem advisable; something to turn to when the two-reference system isn't possible. I've given references to many, MANY providers, only to find out later that they never checked with the ladies I referenced. Why do that to me? And I know a couple of providers who place no stock in references and screen in different way altogether - ways that work consistently.
I'm not suggesting that the published review approach is preferable, though. In my case, any review I EVER wrote is long-gone into the ether of the Internet, and I'm reasonably certain that nothing that would ever pass as an actual review by me will ever exist anywhere again. I guess, sadly, that means that Lexxxy might never agree to meet me, but it's just how I see things now.
I think your initial point was that "TCB" cuts both ways, applying equally to the men and to the women who particiapte in this. I agree wholeheartedly.
In reality, what we sometimes term "TCB" in shorthand here is merely basic human courtesy, something that should be expected in all social interactions. If I write to you, I would expect some sort of reply, absent inappropriate conduct on my part. And you should expect the same of me. It's simply being polite.
It really has little to do with the "business" aspect of our interactions, I think.
On what seems like your secondary point, references, screening, pre-screening, etc., I feel that, sometimes, there is an over-reliance on references, usually the two-reference rule. There are other ways of screening safely and adequately, perhaps even more reliably. Always insisting on one or two references isn't the best approach to take.
I'm sure you already know the reasons why. Many providers don't respond, some aren't fully honest, time is lost in the process, and with that lost time goes lost opportunity. I'm willing to bet that you actually only trust a small handful of provider references; most of us would feel that same way.
Having an alternate, more expedient, form a validation would seem advisable; something to turn to when the two-reference system isn't possible. I've given references to many, MANY providers, only to find out later that they never checked with the ladies I referenced. Why do that to me? And I know a couple of providers who place no stock in references and screen in different way altogether - ways that work consistently.
I'm not suggesting that the published review approach is preferable, though. In my case, any review I EVER wrote is long-gone into the ether of the Internet, and I'm reasonably certain that nothing that would ever pass as an actual review by me will ever exist anywhere again. I guess, sadly, that means that Lexxxy might never agree to meet me, but it's just how I see things now.
- BrookeButtons
- 10-19-2011, 09:27 PM
There are other ways to screen, but the average man doesn't want to hand out his personal information, work information etc. It is why few new clients screen through me, and I am okay with that. If you don't want to go through a back ground check to make sure there are not a past history of molestation, rape, and violence or that you’re a current sex offender, I don’t want to see you anyway!!!
Asking a lady for a vouch isn’t the problem. Most of the Upstate NY ladies reply back to a request within an hour of sent email. And many of these fine ladies I have their contact number so I can send a quick text… bam I got the okay maybe a little faster!! Of course if they are touring/driving/sleeping then they reply as soon as possible. And I have found lots of traveling ladies who are out of state respond timely too. If they have their shit together, care about the ladies, they respond back. Yes your average backpage girl WONT respond, nor do I even bother using them. I know who I can contact for a vouch and a good one other than “he is fine” and I know not to contact.
Had the person who question to see me on Sunday contacted me back and I did get to screen him fast, there still wasn’t enough time!!! He contacted me around 3:30, the ad clearly stated working till 5pm. That would mean my last appointment is 4pm going to 5pm. And I checked his handle and he lives in Buffalo, so either he was wasting my time, like some like to do, or he was interested and didn’t realize that I was working in Rochester.
I do agree though that TCB is really just mutual respect for one another and common courtesy. And stand with my statement that the men of this hobby cannot and should not be so judgmental of a lady not replying back timely when they their self-do not respond back either.
It’s that old saying… those who live in a glass house shouldn’t throw stones.
Asking a lady for a vouch isn’t the problem. Most of the Upstate NY ladies reply back to a request within an hour of sent email. And many of these fine ladies I have their contact number so I can send a quick text… bam I got the okay maybe a little faster!! Of course if they are touring/driving/sleeping then they reply as soon as possible. And I have found lots of traveling ladies who are out of state respond timely too. If they have their shit together, care about the ladies, they respond back. Yes your average backpage girl WONT respond, nor do I even bother using them. I know who I can contact for a vouch and a good one other than “he is fine” and I know not to contact.
Had the person who question to see me on Sunday contacted me back and I did get to screen him fast, there still wasn’t enough time!!! He contacted me around 3:30, the ad clearly stated working till 5pm. That would mean my last appointment is 4pm going to 5pm. And I checked his handle and he lives in Buffalo, so either he was wasting my time, like some like to do, or he was interested and didn’t realize that I was working in Rochester.
I do agree though that TCB is really just mutual respect for one another and common courtesy. And stand with my statement that the men of this hobby cannot and should not be so judgmental of a lady not replying back timely when they their self-do not respond back either.
It’s that old saying… those who live in a glass house shouldn’t throw stones.
- Maximum4
- 10-19-2011, 09:28 PM
I do everything I can to make the provider want to see me or able to see me. The gent not communicating with you is kind of lame. But, you never know why someone doesn't communicate. There could be a ton of reasons.
Regardless, I like to run things a particular way and like I said I do everything I can to make things happen. Including being patient.
The thrill of seeing and touching the next beautiful provider is totally worth it.
Regardless, I like to run things a particular way and like I said I do everything I can to make things happen. Including being patient.
The thrill of seeing and touching the next beautiful provider is totally worth it.
- Guest091813
- 10-19-2011, 09:37 PM
I'm havin no idea yet.. what ms brooke was disagreeing with in my thread..but ya'll wanna see me..contact by phone and give me your handle..give me YOUR HANDLE..it works!!
just giving ya'll an innnnn.......juss sayennnnnnnnn...off track im sure..did you think it wouldnt happen..silly!!!how did i get off thread???
****paranoid****
just giving ya'll an innnnn.......juss sayennnnnnnnn...off track im sure..did you think it wouldnt happen..silly!!!how did i get off thread???
****paranoid****
- Jon Colden
- 10-19-2011, 09:43 PM
My handle is "Jon Colden," Anita. Are we good to go then, you and I?
I'm havin no idea yet.. what ms brooke was disagreeing with in my thread..but ya'll wanna see me..contact by phone and give me your handle..give me YOUR HANDLE..it works!!
just giving ya'll an innnnn.......juss sayennnnnnnnn...off track im sure..did you think it wouldnt happen..silly!!!how did i get off thread???
****paranoid**** Originally Posted by anita germane
- Guest091813
- 10-19-2011, 09:48 PM
My handle is "Jon Colden," Anita. Are we good to go then, you and I?
jon..you sweet man you...we are good to go when you show me your credentials...i love that you are such a country boy..thats half the battle btw..your credentials are abit different than the local folks...we can andle that in private though...woohooo begettin hott up in here!!!! i need a fan!!!or better yet....Jon Colden.....
ps..notice the invoked creativity of needed credentials.....yeah..soooo..y eah..
- Jon Colden
- 10-19-2011, 10:10 PM
Piece of...cake! How easy this can seem sometimes?
Thanks, Anita! Handling my credentials in private with you...that's the stuff that DREAMS are made of! Anytime, Anita, hopefully, sometime soon.
Goodness, I think we took Brooke's thread off-track bigtime tonight.
Thanks, Anita! Handling my credentials in private with you...that's the stuff that DREAMS are made of! Anytime, Anita, hopefully, sometime soon.
Goodness, I think we took Brooke's thread off-track bigtime tonight.
jon..you sweet man you...we are good to go when you show me your credentials...i love that you are such a country boy..thats half the battle btw..your credentials are abit different than the local folks...we can andle that in private though...woohooo begettin hott up in here!!!! i need a fan!!!or better yet....Jon Colden.....
ps..notice the invoked creativity of needed credentials..... Originally Posted by anita germane
- NerdHerd
- 10-19-2011, 10:13 PM
I agree with Max. I've been on the gent side of a well respected provider, screening me according to her methods (which I appreciate that you ladies screen in whatever method you choose. I do feel safer about everything), approving me, setting up a date, including how I should contact her the day before (since it was a morning meeting) and no response. I did not get mad. I truly think that something came up for that provider. Perhaps it didn't but I prefer to err on the optimistic side. Perhaps I am naive and she really just has poor TCB skills. Either way it doesn't matter. I chalk it up to life and experience and don't see a benefit of worrying about it. I just decide going forward if I want to try again or not with that person.
As for Anita, I can attest to her understanding. We had an appt set that became a complete cluster f*!k. Well we tried again after that and its one of the best appts I've ever had. I wonder if the concept of things always happen for reason really applied to this and the missed connection made the actual connection much much better. She could have written me off as a NCNS, and I could have done the same. But reality is cell phones suck (thank you blackberry!!)!
As many others have stated this is supposed to be fun and we need to remember both sides are human beings and life happens ;-)
As for Anita, I can attest to her understanding. We had an appt set that became a complete cluster f*!k. Well we tried again after that and its one of the best appts I've ever had. I wonder if the concept of things always happen for reason really applied to this and the missed connection made the actual connection much much better. She could have written me off as a NCNS, and I could have done the same. But reality is cell phones suck (thank you blackberry!!)!
As many others have stated this is supposed to be fun and we need to remember both sides are human beings and life happens ;-)I do everything I can to make the provider want to see me or able to see me. The gent not communicating with you is kind of lame. But, you never know why someone doesn't communicate. There could be a ton of reasons.
Regardless, I like to run things a particular way and like I said I do everything I can to make things happen. Including being patient.
The thrill of seeing and touching the next beautiful provider is totally worth it. Originally Posted by Maximum4
- Guest091813
- 10-19-2011, 10:38 PM
Nerdherd... your sooo freakin cool...
this is your vouch...show any lady this thread...
I totally vouch for NerdHerd..he is the sweetest gent I have met.very sweet about the time....showed up on time left on time..no issues at all with anything I wasn't down with..never came up..
If this gent ever contacts you..scoup him up and make him feel special..cuz thats the kinda guy he is...very special... and id see him over and over and over again...
yeah!!!!
this is your vouch...show any lady this thread...
I totally vouch for NerdHerd..he is the sweetest gent I have met.very sweet about the time....showed up on time left on time..no issues at all with anything I wasn't down with..never came up..
If this gent ever contacts you..scoup him up and make him feel special..cuz thats the kinda guy he is...very special... and id see him over and over and over again...
yeah!!!!
- NormalBob
- 10-19-2011, 10:57 PM
Plus a well known gent around these boards... that is into greek, knows I don't do greek. Yet every meeting its brought up!!! Originally Posted by BrookeButtonsJust because I mentioned Greek in this thread and post way too f'ing much on this board, I feel obliged to point out that that ain't me being described.
I've been too lame to do much of anything when we've gotten together.
- BrookeButtons
- 10-20-2011, 06:34 AM
Oh no NB... no mentionings of activities that have been asked/pushed on me has ever been you!! Your a joy and I will continue to see you.
Getting back track... losing all that ghetto mumbo jumbo that no one really understands to begin with.......
All I wondered if when a gentlemen wants to set up an appointment with a lady he has never seen, does he put her screening into play? I think Whos(whatever his handle nailed it).
I am sure at this point it was a last minute, you look yummy I wanna see you deal.... and due to my screening policy and time in general, he would have never been able to get a date that day.
So actually I also have a question for Who... I pick you because I know your a on the fly kind of guy, make dates when you are really in heat....
How would you go about seeing say Chloe or Nikki or any other lady with a screening process that does allow maybe an hour or two to see? Or do you stick to ladies that just let you call them up and hear your voice. (that has been what I am told many ladies do they don't ask much of anything but as long as they have a number wheather home or cell they don't care)
Getting back track... losing all that ghetto mumbo jumbo that no one really understands to begin with.......
All I wondered if when a gentlemen wants to set up an appointment with a lady he has never seen, does he put her screening into play? I think Whos(whatever his handle nailed it).
I am sure at this point it was a last minute, you look yummy I wanna see you deal.... and due to my screening policy and time in general, he would have never been able to get a date that day.
So actually I also have a question for Who... I pick you because I know your a on the fly kind of guy, make dates when you are really in heat....
How would you go about seeing say Chloe or Nikki or any other lady with a screening process that does allow maybe an hour or two to see? Or do you stick to ladies that just let you call them up and hear your voice. (that has been what I am told many ladies do they don't ask much of anything but as long as they have a number wheather home or cell they don't care)
- montana1958
- 10-20-2011, 08:19 AM
Montana-Here is the thing with saying "look at my reviews". Say someone creates a fake email account, one similar to Montana and starts trying to see ladies. The person says he is Montana from ECCIE blah blah blah.... How would the lady know truly that she is speaking with the real Montana?
I remember seeing a while back someone was posing as OSD. And I have had people in the past drop names to me such as I am so and so on this review board to find out that it is a guy that just trying to get by the screening process.
Originally Posted by BrookeButtons
I never thought of the e-mail stealing threat before. I guess it makes sense but like was said, there is always the eccie pm approach that has to go to the reviewer's attention. Sometimes I think the eccie pm system is not used enough and would solve the stolen or similar e-mail. Is it considered lazy on the guys part to say see my reviews because I really thought if someone has several local reviews on here, chances are high local ladies know who they are and like you said may be very comfortable just texting one to verify. Totally different with touring girls especially when it's their first trip here.
As for activities and you mentioned cim I think a guy has a responsibility to know the boundry's but understand that lots of reviews are either not truthful and list things not done or it may be a ymmv situation. So asking might not be a problem, but trying when told no is. Hypothetically, would a standing 69 be considered off the menu? See avatar.