Guys what would you do?

I generally do my homework before my visits... well in most cases.

My answer of either B or C would be directly proportional to the money falling out my pocket.

At $$ rate, I could be a lot more "forgiving" and would probably give answer C.

At 1K, I'm probably still going to release my man poisons but it's now more category B range of an answer.

I guess I'll be the a-hole in the room... I'd have to go with A or under duress C. It would, as mwebber said, have a lot to do with the $ involved. Sorry but it really comes down to, why would I spend my hard-earned cash if I am not happy with what I see? And don't give me that looks are decieving crap, this hobby is all about being attracted to someone. We have all walked at one time or another and for varying reasons. Granted, I've (mostly) done my homework and have never walked on a reviewed, respectable provider but have on more than one occasion walked on a "take a chance" BP provider.
On a side note, I've never met you Chloe but can't imagine anyone walking away from you.

How is her dental care? Ok complexion? It ain't all about height and weight !!

How is her dental care? Ok complexion? It ain't all about height and weight !! Originally Posted by whosdair

I would go with C, but oral hygiene is huge for me, if it looks like you've been chewing on rocks I don't think I could do it.

A. Politely decline seeing her appologizing for the inconvenience.
B. Go through the appointment scolding yourself for not doing your homework.
C. See her with an open mind at a possible great experience with a woman that isn't usually your "type".
Originally Posted by Chloe

I have done all 3 of the above. When I first started hobbying, I was defintely more of a B-C attitude. However, after too many of those situations where I dropped money that is hard to come by and walked away afterwards pissed that I didn't listen to my 'big' head, I've taken more of an A attitude.

I can't say this situation would ever happen to me. If the provider is reputable/well known, I have already done my research and that provider is either ON my list or NOT ON my list.

Most of my spur of the moments have been attempting to find a BP gem and I have both stayed and "toughed it out" ( I've even seen a provider who had a chicken in the hotel room!) and other times have just walked out. The foot difference in height and 20 lbs heavier should be pretty discernible in a pic and in reviews. I don't like to take chances, so I try to avoid providers who are out of my specs.


Getting in these situations does no one any good. The provider doesn't feel too great and hobbyist just looks like a jerk.


Isn't having great sex worth doing a little research? The extra effort pays off I believe.

For me I guess it would depend on if i felt i was intentionally mislead. The height thing wouldn't bother me, either would the weight issue really as long as i dint feel intentionally mislead. It bothers me more when the place is a dump or if she look like she just come off a week long bender.
For the reasons you mentioned if her personality seemed fun I stay and hope for a good time( and that had happened more than once) .

I can't say this situation would ever happen to me. If the provider is reputable/well known, I have already done my research and that provider is either ON my list or NOT ON my list. Originally Posted by Maximum4

I had a guy literally walk in and start yelling at me that I was falsely representing myself because I wasn't big enough to call myself a BBW and that I was a con artist chubby chick trying to pass myself off as one. He left and slammed the door, I was writing an alert on him before he even got to the elevator haha.
Once a Gent was a little uncomfortable so I asked what was wrong he said he didn't know that BBWs were that much bigger, he said he thought BBWs only went up to 160 pounds (no where near what a BBW actually is) . I said that I understand and asked him if he minded leaving. He left a donation towards some of my time and politely left and apologized at the door.
I think a lot of stuff like that is in the eye of the beholder. One guy thought I wasn't big enough to be a BBW and another thought BBWs were just chubby girls. After those two instances when I first came out from UTR and started working alone I started reading reviews Gents have written to see what kind of Ladies they usually see and even though I write that I am a BBW in my ads I also ask "Do you know what a BBW is and are you comfortable with me being a BBW?" when someone writes me about a date.

I think a lot of stuff like that is in the eye of the beholder.

Nailed it. Photos can't show how tall/short a person are. And at certain angles a person can look either heavier or thinner.

If a gentlemen chooses to leave, he should consider leaving a proper donation he or both he and the lady sees fit. Especially if he didn't really check stats/photos and really did his homework.

It's good to know there are many open minded and uncritical men here in upstate NY . . .as a traveling girl you all are still a unique force to be reckoned with Originally Posted by Chloe

"something suddenly came up". Gotta go !!

how about this?

GP would that be considered bbw?

Lexxy????

GP would that be considered bbw?

Lexxy???? Originally Posted by montana1958

*Giggle* I would say that she is in between BBW and SSBBW. Usually us BBWs have firm legs and carry our weight well because we are active. For an example if you check out my pics my calves are solid muscle and I don't have kanckles or anything gross like that. BBWs really don't sit around eating bon~bons all day like that girl might haha. Plus, I don't know a single BBW that would actually wear something like that unless requested, that is NOT flattering O_o.