not at all into the rough side the argument about working up in the hobby world seems shaky. while in the civi world you may not f the girls brains out on first date in the hobby world you are often getting blown by, rimming, or greeking [is that a word] someone you did not know 10 minutes ago. if that is ok why not rough play if that is something both parties find attractive [which i do not].
If there is an established relationship built between the two, to get a little more aggresive and kinky isn't an issue with myself at least. Who doesn't like a little hair pulling, nibbling and rough sex in the heat of the moment.
However, with that said... I wouldn't do this sort of an appointment with a gent I just met. There has to be a build up of a relationship.
Just like in the civi world... I am sure you wouldn't take your date out, bring her home and then f*ck her brains out hardcore on the first night... there is always a build up to roughness, at least in my own experiences both here and in the civ world.
Originally Posted by BrookeButtons