Getting to know Provider

nice discussion and yes -- get togethers (GLMIs) are the way to go for many and your attendance can be arranged.....

I personally think those very first moments when you meet someone (if you have not met them previously outside of or behind closed doors) are so important. I must note the ladies above whom I have met have it down to a science and you will never be unhappy nor unnerved.

On the flip side --- to me its all about comfort levels.

One of the worst experiences I've had was being told to tap lightly on the door; as it opened I was literally grabbed by the arm and propelled (dragged) to the bedroom while being "shushed" not to say anything; only to find out she had neighbors whom she considered to be nosey. And this from someone who supposedly takes pride and brags about her screening and secure incalls.

Really made me feel comfortable ===> NOT!!

There is a reason that I repeat with a provider, and in many instances only write a review when requested, or feel the need to provide additional information. I have noticed that with each repeat visit that "YMMV" improves with visit, as the comfort level increases.

bob1962, the best providers just *know* how to put a hobbyist at ease. I enjoy a little conversation too...but, sometimes, the best way to put someone at ease...is to just plant a huge wet one right on the kisser! (lol) I LOVE to kiss...and, in my experience, kissing always gets the chemistry going!

All kidding aside, the best thing to do is to learn to RELAX and have fun! Originally Posted by Likinikki

Is that why you're always telling me to kiss your a........

Hey wait a minute, that's not the same thing Nikki! Lol

I enjoy reading a provider's posts (more than just adverts).

I get a sense of their humor, demeanor, etc. then meeting at a social helps seal the deal sometimes.

I agree with LN & Sonya, the best will put you at ease naturally as you fall under their spell.

Dogg

Also why not ask a provider out to dinner or drinks before an appointment. Originally Posted by sanantonioman37

Is this common? Certainly sounds like a good way to ease the tension and raise comfort levels.

sometimes, the best way to put someone at ease...is to just plant a huge wet one right on the kisser! (lol) I LOVE to kiss...and, in my experience, kissing always gets the chemistry going!fun! Originally Posted by Likinikki

I like your style nikki! lol

OMGoodness Dennis...you owe me a new keyboard!

Ultimately, treating your client like a person and not an ATM machine is always a must. Men have feelings, too and want to feel loved and special.

I agree!! When with a new client and see that he's nervous, I like to talk for about 10 minutes and keep the conversation light and humorous, then I'll stand him up and give him a very soft, slow, wet kiss. Next thing you know, he's ready to go!! And so am I!!
For me, kissing is the perfect icebreaker

nice discussion and yes -- get togethers (GLMIs) are the way to go for many and your attendance can be arranged..... Originally Posted by dennisrn

They certainly are.

I personally think those very first moments when you meet someone (if you have not met them previously outside of or behind closed doors) are so important. I must note the ladies above whom I have met have it down to a science and you will never be unhappy nor unnerved. Originally Posted by dennisrn

Yes, they do. Things are so much nicer that way.

I've always liked the idea of taking a lady to dinner but never have asked. Sure would be a lot easier meeting in a public setting than just knocking on a door not knowing what stands on the other side. I just get the feeling that most ladies aren't interested in doing that? So chime in ladies and let us know the pros and cons of doing this.