Question for Providers

Chuck:

You're in the right place. ECCIE really does seem to be a community amongst itself. I'm definitely new here, but every now and then (after a particular witty thread), I've had ladies PM me and make me feel welcome and adored. I have no illusions, it is their job to make me feel special, but nevertheless, it works.

And as someone who has done a lot of hobbying overseas, find an ATF. Every girl has her own limits, but most providers love clients that give them time and see them as more than just a BCD-robot. My ATF from overseas spent a lot of time with me at clubs off the clock. We were with her RL friends using our RL names, although I normally bought all her drinks. We'd dance and have fun, but she would dance with all her friends. More or less, I was a friend, just like any other friend, off the clock. On the clock, she made me feel like I was the world. I'm still friends with her on facebook, and we still chat it up a lot.

They're out there. Just find someone with a personality you like and spend time with them. Hell, after second or third session if you like them, explain what you want and ask them how they feel about it. Pay well; don't expect any time off the clock until she invites you somewhere. You'll have fun and find what you want, I'm sure.

Cheers,
- SB

Don't ever feel stupid for feeling lonely and needing someone to reach out to and talk with (and more). As as I mentioned earlier. This adult hobby life has some wonderful compassionate people that partake of it. Both men & women.

I'm not looking for a relationship...good lord one of those is enough! I guess what I'm talking about is someone with whom I can exchange the occasional email just to see how things are going and who may be interested in how I'm doing. My life has been this way for several yrs...I've tried a lot of things, reached out to a lot of people, and end up feeling stupid most of the time. Make no mistake, I'm in it for the sex too. After a yr and a half I'm like a kid in a candy store! Originally Posted by chuckfinley

Wow! you guys make me feel better than the folks I've reached out to in my life. You're right Sketch...i think I am in the right place. And I'm gonna take you're advice. I have a date with a new lady this week. I'll take it slow and see how it goes

You need to use the Search tab. Search is your friend. Do your research many questions will be answered and pitfalls of the hobby can be avoided.

I have never been married but don't feel that is the real question here.

Enjoy the compassion and joy that you get from the hobby then do it again!! and again!!

and again!! if you find one you really enjoy do it somemore!!!!! have fun and dont feel

your alone!! Keep Searchin and good luck

The human contact and friendship aspect of this world is so very important, many woman here and other sites simply don't get that. Its just an assembly line for them. You will know it when you you see it.

When you find the right one you will know that also. There are several ladies right here on this board that I talk to regularly, you all know who you are and I enjoy the time with everyone of you.. Some I have met in person and others its simply a phone call or email occasionally.