Fingers

So... on a highly related not, is the bacteria a serious worry? I know some providers don't like FIV, but this is a must for me. I've always been curious as to why some providers don't allow FIV but they allow FS. It's always seemed nonsensical to me. Originally Posted by sketchball82

I'm sure they are thinking, this guy was just changing the oil on his Buick. Now why would I want his fingers in there? LOL

I like it sometimes, I used to not care for it at all..its it can feel really good as long as the guy knows to be gentle and not act like he is digging for buried treasure in there...

So... on a highly related not, is the bacteria a serious worry? I know some providers don't like FIV, but this is a must for me. I've always been curious as to why some providers don't allow FIV but they allow FS. It's always seemed nonsensical to me. Originally Posted by sketchball82

I can only speak for me but yes the bacteria is a major thing with me.There are some guys who say they are clean and just got out of the shower but they have touched the door knob,remote,different fixtures around the room.All of those items may have bacteria and germs now you touch a lady inside.Some guys do not think about all of that they just want to touch and since I had a bad experience with being scratched I am very cautious.
It is very delicate down there anything that will throw a ladies PH balance off is not good for us and germs from hands or fingernails is one of those things.

I have found that if you run into a squirter she likes her gspot rubbed in an upward motion. Two fingers in a well lubed and aroused pussy usually do the trick. Some gals just hate fingers in them in any fashion. The prefer a talented tongue or a hard cock. It's all good to me. I like it all. I love to look at a womans face when she cums so whatever is her preferred road is just fine. Unless it involves her putting anything in my ass. lol Originally Posted by burkalini

+1, but it only works on certain occasions!

I guess because i play with ladies all the time fingers are amazing to me. LOL. Then again, most ladies tend to be a little more hygiene conscious then men and take more time learning the craft of finger play since they clearly lack a penis.

Had a woman who could only get off with DATY and one finger

hell yeah definitely inside....trimmed up...

I really like fingers to accompany oral, but please be mindful of your nails

~Mme X~

My experience is that most of my dates like digits with DATY. It seems to accelerate and accentuate their rise to an O. I will massage their G spot using the tips of my fingers. It worked great last week with a wonderful spinner.

I take time to trim, file and buff my nails so they look nice and are smooth. My hands and fingers are average size so I am not causing havoc down there.

If I see in a review that digits aren't appreciated I will naturally respect her wishes, but this can be a YMMV issue.

Remember, our manual dexterity helps to make us a superior species.

I hate digits during daty. It does NOTHING but mess me up, unless it's like the tip of a finger being rubbed around the outside while the focus of your mouth is on my clit. Hmm, that gave me a charge just typing that. I must get out more!

Not a fan of fingers on the inside, but on the outside is just fine.

Must be gentle, of course, and have freshly clean hands....

My cookie is delicate and highly sensitive, so as long as the gent remembers that I'm not a machine just to be poked and proded, we both will have a wonderful time. *smile and wink*

Genesis Nicole

So... on a highly related not, is the bacteria a serious worry? I know some providers don't like FIV, but this is a must for me. I've always been curious as to why some providers don't allow FIV but they allow FS. It's always seemed nonsensical to me. Originally Posted by sketchball82

it's because most men don't do it right. A penis is a penis, you know what that feels like. Your hand/fingers are more mobile and more dynamic. Most men just don't hit spot right... you would think that they were digging into cake instead of caressing a pussycat.

Yah...don't scrub it like a dirty kitchen floor! I can't stand all the heavy pressing and back and forth bs, not hitting a damn thing! My lips are not where the g spot is!

Its all about timing and lubrication.

With trimmed nails and clean hands of course. I make sure the gents hands
are clean prior to touching me. I like one lubed finger inside during daty and while
I'm using my vibrator on my clit, but they have to be gentle. China was discovered a long time ago quit digging for it! lol