New without references, how do I get them?

Forget giving your stats out.
Granted the $450 an hr girls screen for all their worth.
But a great deal of the eccie babes are on
Adult search and Backpage. For some reason they
aren't as much of sticklers for screening.

Even so, some of the girls I see turn out to
have pretty tight screening routines. I ask later
why I wasn't screened, only two answers
They forgot/thought they had.
Upon meeting they knew there was no way
I was a cop or anything of the sort.

Funny thing. I would never want to use
my ATF as a reference- seem like I was
- yeah I'm going to say it- cheating on her.
Bad form, bad taste.
She probably couldn't care in the least.
She can do what she wants.
I do what I'm comfortable with.

Forget giving your stats out.
Granted the $450 an hr girls screen for all their worth.
But a great deal of the eccie babes are on
Adult search and Backpage. For some reason they
aren't as much of sticklers for screening.

Even so, some of the girls I see turn out to
have pretty tight screening routines. I ask later
why I wasn't screened, only two answers
They forgot/thought they had.
Upon meeting they knew there was no way
I was a cop or anything of the sort.

Funny thing. I would never want to use
my ATF as a reference- seem like I was
- yeah I'm going to say it- cheating on her.
Bad form, bad taste.
She probably couldn't care in the least.
She can do what she wants.
I do what I'm comfortable with. Originally Posted by anaximander

Every provider I have emailed has required references and when I expressed that I was new and that I was planning on getting set up with p411 I was told that I still needed references and basically sent packing.

Every provider I have emailed has required references and when I expressed that I was new and that I was planning on getting set up with p411 I was told that I still needed references and basically sent packing. Originally Posted by KenMonk

You will have to visit a well known newbie friendly lady to get the reference. I went through this recently. The ladies that interested me required references so I had so suck it up and pick a lady that would see me to get the reference needed. They were still nice ladies so it was an easy thing to do I just regreted it because I am a tightwad and only wanted to use my limited funds on those that really interested me. That is no longer an issue.

Get P411 set up it will make this easier.

You have to talk to them brother.
Have money in hand ready to go.
You will make many cold calls.
The warm ones are worth it.

I couldn't believe you were having
any trouble until you mentioned email.

I'd bet dollars to pink doughnuts
that I could find an eccie/bp/as hon
tonight in your town. Considering
you are looking at just eccie and 411
you're kinda seeing the upperlimit
on what they can get for their goods.
More power to them.

But you gotta do what you gotta do.

Someone tell the newbie to use the Search button. Geez, do your research and not act the newbie. Plus, you are asking LE types of questions. If I were you, and you are a legit fucktard, I would do my homework or download some porn.

Um, again, there are plenty of newbie friendly providers out there. You just have to give them your employment information...which is what you're going to have to do to join P411 or Date-Check anyway. It's really not that difficult of a situation. Just email or call someone & be honest with your info. If you're not honest, she'll figure it out & you'll both move on.

Someone tell the newbie to use the Search button. Geez, do your research and not act the newbie. Plus, you are asking LE types of questions. If I were you, and you are a legit fucktard, I would do my homework or download some porn. Originally Posted by pyramider

Not sure how I am asking a LE question but either way you can go fuck yourself. I asked a simple question, got a simple answer and I have moved on. Again thanks to those who have helped.

Oh there was also nothing to research you fucking douche bag. I bet you wear over sized sun glasses on the back of your head and you pop the collar of your polo.

Ah the holiday spirit! I just feel it in the air! LOL

Indeed it is that time of year.

Indeed it is that time of year. Originally Posted by KenMonk

Be patient Rome was built over night! Keep sending out PM'S , emails and my personal favorite... call! Sooner or later you’re down the road and all this will be in the rear view mirror!

Or you pick the ugliest cheapest provider and bring her a super nice gift. Dance with the devil and ask her to be a reference. That might do the trick! I'd be patient! LOL

KenMonk, I truely hope you haven't used your real name to register here. If so, you need to change your username muy pronto.

KenMonk, I truely hope you haven't used your real name to register here. If so, you need to change your username muy pronto. Originally Posted by Wicket

No Way? OMG?

Why is it these newbs are not bright enough to read a little to learn the ropes. Then ask a question if they need clarification. Alas, kmonk will soon be the victim of his own ignorance . . .

KenMonk, I truely hope you haven't used your real name to register here. If so, you need to change your username muy pronto. Originally Posted by Wicket

Now that would be funny.

Lets cool it on the name calling Pyramider and Ken. We were all newbies once.