Planning ahead by Pre-screening.

Did I forget to mention?

Someone is lying here. No one's memory is that good. There are ways to save info without saving names or personal information. You are right london. SOMETHING is being saved or else every single escort out there would be disorganized and would be labeled a flake. Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Maybe their info is based on which std they have bwahahaha!

I just get too annoyed having to remember, so I don't bother. If a guy does not book in the week he contacts me or for the touring week, I am not bothering to save crap. It's not my job to remember you when you don't follow through, and I tell them this upfront. If I screen you and you don't book within 2 weeks, you will have to do it all over again. Simple.

I appreciate guys who like to plan ahead, but honestly I have no clue what I am doing a month or two from now. It's pointless to contact me asking, "Will you be in town in 2012?" Seriously, wtf! I could get married or hit by a bus before then lol.

Who is starting drama? It's a discussion board where your every word can in fact be brought up for further explanation...just as ours are. If you don't want varying opinions, don't ask for them.

Not everyone here screens and/or provides the same way, and you don't have to take advice you don't want to. Just because I may not do things the way you do, means nothing. You are the one getting hassled by last minute calls..not me.

Maybe their info is based on which std they have bwahahaha! Originally Posted by London Rayne

I save emails and initials in my database. I'm pretty good with names because I don't see a lot of people. Anyone that says they don't save ANYTHING is lying especially if they get repeat business. I work only on prebooks and guys book in advance with me like at most a month in advance and i pencil down the date. It may not work for someone else but it works for me.

I save emails and initials in my database. I'm pretty good with names because I don't see a lot of people. Anyone that says they don't save ANYTHING is lying especially if they get repeat business. I work only on prebooks and guys book in advance with me like at most a month in advance and i pencil down the date. It may not work for someone else but it works for me. Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Agreed... How do you NOT save shit? I write everything down. How the fuck are you supposed to give a reference if you don't log it? Whatevs.

I really don't save anything girl. I don't have to. I am too much of a biaatch to have that many guys calling all at once lol. I save info. up until the time I leave for a tour, and that's it. If they don't call me to confirm, I have no clue as to how to get in touch with them. I don't have the time to go chasing appts. that either want to see me or don't. Next...

I give refs by making the girl ask the guy in question a date, city, and hotel he saw me at and something about him physically. If they can't do that, they won't get a ref. Again, not my problem. I am a good reference provider, but I do things differently than most. Ask any girl who has ever used me as a ref...she is told that a freaking handle and email do me no good, because unless it's a guy who made a stellar impression, I won't know. Guys on Eccie whom I chat with, I will of course know right off who they are, but random guys I might have seen...nope.

If a guy writes a review, that's another way I can recall who he is without having to save anything at all. I don't even know Rabbit's number off hand and we have seen each other over and over! I don't keep his number to protect HIM.

I don't log references. I don't have to. I could careless about that as long as I give the girl the info and she has what she needs to stay safe.

What I am saying here is that - How I work may now work for you or London and how London works may not work for me. In fact, I know it will not work for me because I cannot NOT save anything.

I prescreen all the time. Is it a waste of time? not really but what would annoy me is if I took the time to prescreen a guy and he cancels without rescheduling. Because of my business model, prebooking works for me. I never have a problem with guys not wanting to prebook or prescreen. I also have never had an NCNS . My experiences differ from most here.

Oh no, I am not saying I don't pre-screen...I certainly do up to a week or two. I mean I won't do it for 2 months from now unless it's an overnight secured by a deposit. Without a deposit, I assume they are all full of crap bwahaha. Also, with that deposit, I don't need their info again. They have mine at that time to contact me for futher directions etc.

I really don't save anything girl. I don't have to. I am too much of a biaatch to have that many guys calling all at once lol. I save info. up until the time I leave for a tour, and that's it. If they don't call me to confirm, I have no clue as to how to get in touch with them. I don't have the time to go chasing appts. that either want to see me or don't. Next...

I give refs by making the girl ask the guy in question a date, city, and hotel he saw me at and something about him physically. If they can't do that, they won't get a ref. Again, not my problem. I am a good reference provider, but I do things differently than most. Ask any girl who has ever used me as a ref...she is told that a freaking handle and email do me no good, because unless it's a guy who made a stellar impression, I won't know. Guys on Eccie whom I chat with, I will of course know right off who they are, but random guys I might have seen...nope.

If a guy writes a review, that's another way I can recall who he is without having to save anything at all. I don't even know Rabbit's number off hand and we have seen each other over and over! I don't keep his number to protect HIM. Originally Posted by London Rayne

I can attest to that. She will usually have me call her after we talk via email. She is kewl like that.

Yah...and I see you off the clock for dinner and still don't keep your damn number. I don't even know your email which is why I pm you first and say, "Call me fool."

It's so cool seeing mod under your name..you are my 5th mod bwahahaha!

Pre-screening is definitely the way to go. As to the other topic in the thread; I have to keep more info when I'm travelling. But I am damn good (anal even) about deleting.

When I'm home I don't keep anything, not even numbers. I DO use my memory to know who's calling emailing me. (yes, that includes for refs and I give detailed refs..yes from memory).

Travelling (like now) different story. Jusat had a lady ask me for a ref and I found myself completely blank. Had to have the guy call me. Felt like an ass cause soon as I heard his voice I knew exactly who it was. Usually my recall is number specific - too much travelling is too much number overload. (and I'm a lil homesick today too)

What are you a MOD groupie now..lol. Hell I saw you way before I even wanted to be one.

I am the same way Babee...total blank unless it's a city that I only saw like 2 guys in, or all the boys from Eccie whom we get to see post a lot. Most others, I don't much recall without them telling me when and where they saw me and maybe where we ate for dinner. Usually something stupid I said, will bring back memories of who they are lol.

No groupie Rabbit, though I should be up to about 11 when I get back from Dallas and Vegas ha ha.

Fortunately,I do not get too many same day appt requests and when I do it is usually off of P411 and the gent has okays.I have had some guys send me a request to be pre-screened due to them not knowing their exact schedule when they contacted me.
If they send pre-screening info I usually ask it to be no more than 3 wks in advance and to let me know when he has more of an idea of his schedule.

If a gent sends me his info to be pre-screened but does not go through with the appointment(this does not happen often)and wants to re-schedule a couple of months later.I need his info again.
I will say being Email Only cut out a lot of the BS when I had a number posted seems like majority of calls was same day or last minute.I do not work this way I am by appointment only.I also have the guys who book months in advance and send references IMO I have found these guys tend not to cancel.