Discrete or Non-discrete... that is the question!

Some ladies Ive talked to that do show face say their friends and family knows what they do so they dont care.

I think most are not thinking of any future trouble.. Once its on the net you can never take it back. Originally Posted by LynnT

Linda like Sperm! LOL

There are some sites I participate on where I only show my face to a certain level of member, where I am able to set that restriction myself. Any site in public? At first I did show my face - but after educating myself about how those pictures can end up in "face books", I took everything down. If my reviews aren't enough to tell someone I'm not a horrid troll, I'm not sure what I can do to convince anyone

I know some women who show their faces. Their families and friends know they are escorts. They are not ashamed to be selling time and companionship, and helping other people.

Stating that an escort, who shows her face, will not honor and respect a client's need for discretion, is ridiculous. That's like adding 2+2 and getting 22!

I refuse to show my face. I'm so paranoid, I won't even blur my face but show my hair. Lol.

No one in my civilian life knows what I do & I'd be risking too much if anyone found out.

It's simply not worth it to me to put everything I have or could have in the future at risk for a temporary career.

DisCrete. When you explain where on the map your pointing to.

I refuse to show my face. I'm so paranoid, I won't even blur my face but show my hair. Lol.

No one in my civilian life knows what I do & I'd be risking too much if anyone found out.

It's simply not worth it to me to put everything I have or could have in the future at risk for a temporary career. Originally Posted by evietaylor

I agree with you, Evie! I am paranoid, too. Yes, I do have a life outside of here...career, family, lots of friends, etc.
One time last year, there was a hobbyist that put a review on me mentioning what I do in my other career, where I am from, and some general family info. I was like,"Why the hell do you feel the need to share that info with everyone?? What do those info have anything to do with the hobby?? Do you not understand what dicretion means?" Sigh! Luckily....moderator deleted that part of the review right away.

My family and close friends know and are super supportive. Now granted, I don't go running my mouth telling everyone I meet what's up right off the bat but I won't lie about it forever. There will always be judgemental people and that's totally fine. I am happy, healthy, financially thriving and my clients are fab. I refuse to live my life on anyone else's terms but my own. My pictures are only blurred right now because I have to keep a low profile through the end of the year. Once all is clear, it's back to full face. Being in Vegas, it's easy to blend in. My client's discretion is of the utmost importance and there has never been any problems at all, even before the blurring.

I know some women who show their faces. Their families and friends know they are escorts. They are not ashamed to be selling time and companionship, and helping other people.

Stating that an escort, who shows her face, will not honor and respect a client's need for discretion, is ridiculous. That's like adding 2+2 and getting 22! Originally Posted by pfunkdenver

If I see a clear face in an ad, I like it because I can better know if I want to see her. But I would feel differently if I planned on going out with her in public (this would be dumb for a married guy). However, from the woman's perspective, I agree with those who say she should hide or blur her face, for the reasons stated in this thread. I do wonder about the providers that absolutely reveal their face in their ads--don't they think they should hide their hobby activities from their families, friends, employers, or people looking at these photos in the future?

Good photos can (if the woman is willing to do this) hide or blur much of the face while still showing enough (sharp or blurred) of facial structure to reveal how beautiful the woman might be. I've certainly on occasion become highly attracted to a picture that has blurred or partially hidden facial features.

I show my face because I am not ashamed of my job, anyone who I could possibly care about vaguely knows what I do for a living and if they don't they can fuck off because the last thing I need in my busy life is judgmental people because no one on this earth is perfect.

Do I expect to be an escort my whole life? No. But it won't be some dirty little crude secret I will take to my grave because, surprisingly, I love my job, the people I've gotten to meet and the opportunities I've been offered have been a wonderful part of me life. I don't expect to be in line for a job with a clearance in the future especially in my professional field. So i don't worry about it and if my Grandkids do stumble upon granny strutting her stuff in a g-string in the old days, I will be sure to have great stories for them.

Besides who can say no to this face!!! LOL.

I know some women who show their faces. Their families and friends know they are escorts. They are not ashamed to be selling time and companionship, and helping other people.

Stating that an escort, who shows her face, will not honor and respect a client's need for discretion, is ridiculous. That's like adding 2+2 and getting 22! Originally Posted by pfunkdenver

EXactly! I have no problems being as discreet as my client needs and I have never been recognized on the street so far.

I feel the same way, Skylar. I know women who don't show their faces who get recognized all the time. Some of you can't hide the fact that you're a hooker regardless of whether you're showing your face or not, so what's the difference? I have YET to be recognized in six years. The fact that I show my face has yet to be a problem for my friends, and MOST of my encounters are public.

I feel the same way, Skylar. I know women who don't show their faces who get recognized all the time. Some of you can't hide the fact that you're a hooker regardless of whether you're showing your face or not, so what's the difference? I have YET to be recognized in six years. The fact that I show my face has yet to be a problem for my friends, and MOST of my encounters are public. Originally Posted by Tiffani Jameson

Me either. Even when I worked my square job which was at a bank I never had a problem.
Even if someone did recognize you, do you really think they're going to say anything? What does that say about them?

Me either. Even when I worked my square job which was at a bank I never had a problem.
Even if someone did recognize you, do you really think they're going to say anything? What does that say about them? Originally Posted by Shayla

Hello! And I think being recognized or 'spotted' has a lot to do with your look and the way you carry yourself. Some women have no hope of being asked out on a dinner date because of what they look like. Don't tell me I'm the only one who plays "Spot the Hooker" on dinner dates! LOL

Unless you are running for a public office, or somewhere down the line, some group wants to bite you in the ass, I don't see the problem with providers showing or not showing their face. Besides, if the some group really wants to out you, they can pull up your IP address, websites, phone numbers or worse yet....lie!

I know some women who show their faces. Their families and friends know they are escorts. They are not ashamed to be selling time and companionship, and helping other people.

Stating that an escort, who shows her face, will not honor and respect a client's need for discretion, is ridiculous. That's like adding 2+2 and getting 22! Originally Posted by pfunkdenver

Oh really..tell that to the guys who are PHOTOGRAPGHED with known escorts whilst out on the town after they have her pictures on the net to compare. You simply don't know who the other person is that you are with and who they might have "watching" them. Ever hear of couple going through a divorce hearing where a prenup is null and void in the case of adultery? Nuff said.

You are seriously naive to think a girl who does this in the very town she lives in will not be noticed at hotels, restaurants, her kid's school by goodness, even the damn gym. Or do NONE of those people also peruse sites like this? LMAO. It makes no difference if HER family and friends know...the CLIENT'S family sure as hell does NOT!

Just because she does not go around giving out her client's info. is not enough. We are not talking about escorts who only see single guys in hotel rooms, but no married man in his right mind is going to take a girl out and risk being exposed.

I am sorry if you are offended because someone you know shows her face, but to be oblivious to the obvious effects it can have is delusional. I respect your GF very much so I won't argue too much with you, but it is what it is. Those of US with careers and children, don't feel the need to be proud of being a hooker! No my family and friends don't know, and my school sure as hell didn't or I would have been kicked out.

I don't know what world you are living in, but the corporate world still frowns about hookers...even when they themselves hire us. No one said anything about respecting a client...it's about the entire package. If you say you are discreet then you are discreet in EVERY way...period! You can't be a little bit pregnant.

Bigblk,

You do not have to run for office to be fked if word of this gets out...as freaking if. With all the nut jobs here, you honestly think photos of mommy have not shown up at her kid's school? Providers have been tossed from College because they were strippers, nurses booted for being hookers, teachers, etc.

Do more research before you send women down a blind alley please! I am so sure a future CEO would not be fired and blackballed if it came out she were a whore..right lol. Let us not forget many women here have sole custody of their CHILDREN...do I even need to light the bulb for you to see that? Here's a clue...ex wants custody now and WOW lookie here, I can PROVE my wife is a a hooker! I am so sure the cops will believe that she is just an escort selling her time bwahahah!

I have countless examples of what has happened to women after they leave this and try to get a real job or worse, lose their children because of a few extra bucks.

If a girl wants to show her face no problemo, but to try and rationalize it by playing the "It could never happen" card is very naive. Just say you don't give a fk!