it takes practice & patience to learn how to give a true prostate massage...i make it my mission to read all I can about it!
Originally Posted by DallasRain
Permit me a moment of your attention and I will explain the process. A urologist loved my massage and has taught me how to do this from the ground up.
I'm sure miss Dallas Rain is a good provider of this service as I've heard good things.
First, you can't use your tongue for this, that would be TUMA only. Prostate massage is a delicate service that requires a sensitive touch. Each prostate is different just like each penis is different but they all work pretty much the same. Over 40 has the best chance of enjoying this but I've seen younger (much younger) LOVE it. If you try it with someone that actually knows what they are doing and you find it uncomfortable (it will not be painful, if it is she either doesn't know what she's doing or you need to go to the doctor immediately) try again in a few years.
It's alot like eating veggies as a kid. Not the best experience but as you age your pallet changes and you come to like and even love them. Give your prostate a chance to mature. The reward is an orgasm unlike anything you've ever felt. I find it incredibly unfair that men get the penis and the prostate. Men are capable of incredible sensations, many of which have never been considered.
Find someone you trust and can explain what is about to happen to you... for example: Ignore the sensation like you have to pee. You don't and you won't. Your urethra runs right there with the penile nerves and it's stimulation will give the hint of needing to urinate. You will know in the first 5 seconds if it's something you will like or not. It will not feel better if you just give it a chance, it's just not time yet for you to enjoy this particular pleasure.
I will not teach how to do this on the open board for obvious reasons, but if you'd like to PM me I'll be happy to talk with you there.
Enjoy the little things my loves.... the prostate is little indeed.
I used to do it all the time to my ex-boyfriend, and he had the most INTENSE orgasms! So I guess I'm good, but have only done it w/him. I'd TOTALLY be up to it in Austin
I've learned much from some very informative PMs. Thank you for sharing. Now I need to get with my ATF and try to "Light My Fire"...we're going to have a mutual G-spot party if this works because I know where hers is.
Elizabeth: I continue to enjoy this amazing thing called "Life" by trying to expand my horizons through new experiences. Thank you for asking.
I've recently started learning the art of outside prostate stimulation using the tongue, or what some of us call the TAINT lol. Holy moly I thought that he was going to mule kick me.
LK is one of the brightest around. Despite being half my age she gave me the best advice on DATY I've ever heard or read.
Simply put, since everyone is different, perform DATY on a lady the same way she performs BBBJ on you, in all likelihood the rythem, pressure and timing will be just right. Of course, I have the added advantage of the occasional soft beard brush that, thankfully LK doesn't have!
She's not called, "the Dick Whisperer" for nothing!