Post a bad review? or not

Interesting.. I've contemplated about this question.. As a newbie, I've found that the providers that I've tried to book have been flaky -- with no-shows and other things going on (stinky vaginas). That being said, you can't really graduate until you get past the new stigma to more established providers. So, you have to take it.

The reason why I haven't written a bad review is because I know that I risk not being able to get enough providers to work with me so that I can began seeing the more established, professional and selective providers.

I think every session should be reviewed (unless you've seen the provider more than twice). I find reviews very helpful in determining which providers to see and which one's to avoid. By reviewing each session (even on a well reviewed provider), one is still either confirming what has already been written or there maybe some new info regarding a well reviewed provider. For instance, I saw a provider who had a limited menu. Reading some more current reviews revealed that her menu had expanded. That was good info.

One thing I've noticed on ECCIE is that for the most part, the reviews are overwhelmingly positive. I don't see anything wrong with that, but on other review sites, the ratio between positive and negative reviews is narrower than here. Also, I like the fact that here on ECCIE, the gals don't have direct access to the ROS portion of the review. On another site which is now defunct, you would see reviews rebutted by the provider. Some of the back and forth got nasty.

I think every session should be reviewed. I find reviews very helpful in determining which providers to see and which one's to avoid. By reviewing each session (even on a well reviewed provider), one is still either confirming what has already been written or there maybe some new info regarding a well reviewed provider. Originally Posted by Cpalmson

I review every lady I see either on here or TER. I don't leave tips, so the 2 hours it takes to write a review is my way of saying thanks for a good time. I usually have a good time unless the lady doesn't want to kiss or leaves my dick raw from a lousy blowjob. Out of the 61 reviews I have wrote on here, only 4 have been negative experiences. And don't think, like I used to, that a lady will never find out what's in the ROS section of the review... 3 out the 4 ladies I wrote lackluster reviews for contacted me multiple times via pm, email, or phone to harass me.

Hobbyist like myself that are NOT GFE hobbyist have obviously less requirements to be met in a session. So the Yes Recommendation is more likely from me rather than a GFE hobbyist who demands more needs being met!

Yes if it is serious post it... but remember 1 bad review will out weigh 10 good reviews. Originally Posted by LadyRed

IMHO, its really the reverse. 10 good reviews will out weigh 1 bad review. When I see this, it indicates to me that lady and guy show wrote the bad review just didn't click and I will ignore that review.

Yes if it is serious post it... but remember 1 bad review will out weigh 10 good reviews. Originally Posted by LadyRed

not true IMO. I have seen providers that got good to so so reviews. Had whatever problems with a string of bad reviews. Only to spring back to good reviews. One bad review can be a killer. or nothing at all

I have seen countless review profiles on TER where the first 5 or 6 are all bad....yet guys still see them lol. Dayum.

You have to expect blow back if you write a negative review, or even one that is just tepid and non-committal. This is certainly true on sites where the reviews are open to all and it particularly applies to certain agencies, where the owners will jump on any negative reviews, almost always blaming the hobbyist for the unsatisfactory event.

From my perspective, I think twice about writing anything negative about a provider, and remember, these ladies often stick together and there can be far reaching and unintended consequences.

As an aside, I am wondering about the OP's satisfaction ratio of 20%. That seems awfully low to me and maybe he should reconsider how he makes his choices. A much higher satisfaction ratio would make this topic far less important to him.

You have to expect blow back if you write a negative review, or even one that is just tepid and non-committal. This is certainly true on sites where the reviews are open to all and it particularly applies to certain agencies, where the owners will jump on any negative reviews, almost always blaming the hobbyist for the unsatisfactory event.

From my perspective, I think twice about writing anything negative about a provider, and remember, these ladies often stick together and there can be far reaching and unintended consequences.

As an aside, I am wondering about the OP's satisfaction ratio of 20%. That seems awfully low to me and maybe he should reconsider how he makes his choices. A much higher satisfaction ratio would make this topic far less important to him. Originally Posted by awl4knot

If you only will write a good review then I don't see the point of writing them at all. The truth is the truth and that's what reviews are supposed to be for. Not to only glorify the good ones. Most providers out there do a great job of making their clients happy and deserve all the praise so don't let the bad ones get away with it because really your insulting the hard work of the good ones. Yes it is hard work for them because most of us are older. Some of us are fat or ugly. Someof us can't fuck worth a shit and they make us feel like we are the best anyway.

You have to expect blow back if you write a negative review, or even one that is just tepid and non-committal. This is certainly true on sites where the reviews are open to all and it particularly applies to certain agencies, where the owners will jump on any negative reviews, almost always blaming the hobbyist for the unsatisfactory event.

From my perspective, I think twice about writing anything negative about a provider, and remember, these ladies often stick together and there can be far reaching and unintended consequences. Originally Posted by awl4knot

If you are worried about negative feedback, then maybe you should stop writing reviews. Eventually you are gonna get negative feedback for writing dishonest\sugarcoated reviews. The hobby is YMMV, so each person experience is different, but noticeable physical features are harder to sugarcoat.

As for me, if I feel that the lady and I just didn't click, then I wouldn't write a no review. If I didn't feel like I have a good time due to certain things, I usually let the lady know what she can improve on. Hell, I have written a no review on a lady because MSOG was not on her menu or was YMMV. Since she was new, I let her know what she needed to improve on and that MSOG should not be YMMV. Months later, I saw her again. She seem to have taken my advice and I wrote her a yes review because I had a great time.

Would you set a date with a provider that has one bad recent review among other good reviews? I bet you would have second thoughts about it Originally Posted by duroperoseguro

Seen ladies with multiple bad reviews and had a good time. Now, I always consider who the reviewer is, the reviewer's past reviews, why the bad review, and whether if that the lady is consistently bad.

You start out at point A. And you take a journey and get to point B. If the experience is pleasant and you get from A to B the review is YES!

The question is NOT what is a YES? The question is why a no? I have read many a review that were NO recommendations, yet you read the review and you start thinking my god this guy had a great time! Then there is a blip that she's not my type so it’s a NO! I think how chicken shit! Some pretty little thing just sucked and fucked you from point A to point B but it’s a no! Well fuck you and the shellfish horse you rode in on! I always like this one, MSOG X 3, discounted rate, 30 minute appointment, but it was mechanical, so NO!

Top Ten Reasons for a No Recommendation

1) You walk in and the provider starts choking you because you remind her of some else that gave her a very bad review.
2) You had to go out to your car and retrieve pine tree air freshener to reduce the smell of burnt rubber in the room.
3) Air traffic control has you circling the motel more than 30 minutes
4) Bait & Switch. You thought you were getting a Blonde named Bobbie, instead you got a Blonde named Bobby!
5) When the provider says everything is covered but she means by a blanket not a condom.
6) The only thing you get for your money is a dance which consists of the provider wiggling the money into her bill fold.
7) While you’re in the room, she is on the phone telling another hobbyist give me 15 minutes.
8) When you walk in you see a sign that says: "If you only want to spend $200.00 I would like to recommend my $50.00 hand job with a $150.00 tip!
9) On the night stand you see a gross of condoms, a bottle of Jack Daniels Whiskey and a box of Tampons!
10) If the provider says "Cum for me baby, you feel so good" while your taking off your pants!

I do write honest reviews, if I had a bad one I would ask the lady why it was bad before I published it. Of course there can be reasons but I would want to know the reason before I leave.
I have not had a bad review ever because I do screen as much as I can.
and that really pays off.

I think an honest review would better serve the needs of the community . I can see why one would abstain from writing a negative review with the fear that he may be prohibited from seeing some ladies in the future, but I dont think all ladies will black ball you for giving some other chic a no. Clearly ANYTHING could have happened in there resulting in her NO so it would be out of place for me to think its your fault or that I would get a no as well. If i provide A1 service, I shouldn't get a no.


I think it would help tremendously if providers could see the ROS, but were NOT allowed to comment on it. I personally would LOVE to see what's being said about me in the paid access only portion so I would know how I can improve, why my phone may not be ringing and what I can do to make it better the next time. Saying YES, then talking smack in the ROS is a cowardly thing to do. I know some guys take the ROS as their opportunity to give hints about what they didn't like, but how does that help the provider become better??

I don't write a lot of reviews. I probably only average 1 review out of every 7 or 8 sessions. I'm just not that comfortable writing them. I would not write a NO review unless the session was absolutely horrible such as a bait and switch, bad hygiene, or some other sort of bad behavior that others need to be warned about. But since I only see ladies that are established and well reviewed I have never found myself in that realm of needing to write a No Review.

I have had a few sessions where I didn't click with the provider. Not clicking with someone is not a reason to write a bad review so I choose not to write a review. I just put them in my do not call list and move on.

As far as ladies that have a No or two, I generally read all of their reviews more thoroughly before making up my mind. If I find a pattern of lackluster reviews mixed in with the No’s I move on.