I didnt realize so many gentlemen had so little faith in their local ladies. The ladies must be really lax on discretion and remaining drama free if the reason to avoid them is to lower the chance of a pubic scene.
Originally Posted by exoticentyce
That's what astounded me as I was reading through this thread... I'd say it's pretty disturbing if ladies were giving the impression (and just by their reputation, apparently?) that they'd be unable to handle an accidental meeting in public.
I would NEVER approach someone in public even if they appeared to be alone. I wouldn't even acknowledge them unless they gave me a quick 'hello' nod or something. I should hope anyone else would do the same as it seems pretty common sense to me... but maybe not?
Most of the gentlemen who come to see me - at least on a regular basis - drive about an hour in order to meet me. There are a few gentlemen I see for whom I'd be the "backyard" type and for them I'm particularly careful on where they park & making sure no one is watching when they come in. I have a routine worked out so that they're never sitting there waiting in front of my incall (and it blows my mind, because I've heard so many horror stories of guys being left in hotel parking lots for 45 minutes) and the only time they're seen outside here is in the few seconds it takes for them to get from their car to my door. It's safer for both of us that way IMO.