Are Tips Expected On Longer Sessions?

None expected, all appreciated. A repeat visit is the best tip!!! Originally Posted by LadyRed

I agree 100 percent

A tip is never expected. Originally Posted by ZarahAdams

Ummm no Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

I don't expect tips period. I set my rates to include what I need, and that's a rap. Gifts are kind, but I prefer any cash tip go to a charity I give to every month anyway.

...lol. Originally Posted by London Rayne

That wasn't just the tip, that was the whole thing!!!

Nah, this hobby is expensive enough. Booking a longer session more often that not is a tip in itself. Like OP stated, usually a date over an hour doesn't consist of ALL BCD activities. If they bring my favourite beer over that's better than tipping money.

I've never understood the whole *tipping* thing in this adult lifestyle.
And I shake my head many times when I contact someone for a vouch and they give the guy a bad vouch of (NOPE won't see him again. He didn't tip. Take your chances WM, if you want. But he doesn't tip.)

Ummm, OK. No where did I nor do I ask about tipping, nor do I care whether or not someone tips. That's not what this adult lifestyle is about. (for me anyways).
It really, separates the companions who truly enjoy men, from the providers who simply see men as a job and nothing more.

If a provider expects to be tipped after engaging in adult interaction with another human. Then she ought to up her rates to include said expected tip. Then again, she may do that and still expect a tip beyond the inflated donation.


Rick, if your booking an extended date with a companion. I highly doubt she'd expect you to tip. (I could be wrong).
Women who enjoy extended dates. Tend to be women who truly enjoy men.

First: I don't tip. Second: I always book longer sessions - a minimum of 90 minutes to 2 hours depending on the lady's pricing structure. The extra time does not mean more sex. It's to have a drink, relax, talk and not be rushed. I never thought about it until I read on a different thread that some providers won't see a certain ethnic group because they don't tip. I can see tipping on shorter sessions like 1/2 an hour, but ladies, do you expect tips on longer sessions? Originally Posted by rick1971

I am not a clock watcher. I leave that to the lady and if she fails to, in her subtle ways, to let me know time is up I may and often stay over. If the lady does not handel it well, then I do not return.

I agree with ladyred, return visits are the ultimate tip. Extra time is considered by me as an expression of appreciation for my patronage.

Like I have read on here many times, there is something for every one in this hobby.

I admit....I have never tipped. Ever. Now I will buy a fresh bottle of her favorite spirits or foods on overnights, even pay for dinner and have drinks. But I haven't tipped ever.

If I do tip.....its only because I want to upgrade with more time booked.

A tip for me is a return visit with a preboooking confirmation she can take as gold....especially if she's a touring provider.

If a provider gets mad after the fact at the fact you didn't tip her, ....she needs to up her rates.....

For me tips are never expected but a pleasant surprise when it happens and greatly appreciated.Like another reply mentioned I rather see the gent as a return friend than the monetary tip after a session IMO that is the best tip.

I own my own business I hate it when people ask me to lower my rate and try and get me to negotiate. So when I see a provider, I always pay the requested rate because I know they hate this as well.

But, I never leave a tip. Why? Because no one has ever paid me extra in my line of work. My customers often will use my services again or recommend me, but I've never received a check with an extra payment on it. They always just pay the invoice amount. For the providers I like- I will see them again when she comes back to my area if I'm available, recommend her to others, and I will pay the requested rate without fuss.

Leaving a good review is sort of like a tip- it generally takes me longer to write a review than it did to attend the session.

Hint hint guys....writing a review is tip enough. They are a pain in the butt and they do garner us more money in the end, so thanks!

Hint hint guys....writing a review is tip enough. They are a pain in the butt and they do garner us more money in the end, so thanks! Originally Posted by London Rayne

Reviews are a total pain the ass!!

I haven't read all of the replies, but I'm pretty sure I'm going to be echoing the same thing other Ladies have said...

I NEVER expect a tip.
Just the fact that you chose to spend time with me and paid my rate is

To me, the best tip is a return visit. I already know you and won't have the same "first time" jitters that come from seeing someone for the first time.
The date is more relaxed and we should have more to talk about or other positions that we didn't get to try the first go round!

A positive review of your experience can also be a delightful tip...

And to the men that do go out of their way to leave a monetary or thoughtful gift that the lady can enjoy, you all are SIMPLY AWESOME! (I hear angels singing).

Just felt like throwing my 2 cents on the table.

Genesis Nicole

as long as you don't overstay your time tipping is not expected.

if you go over your time, I will remind you, and yes it will be expected.

respect my time, I'll respect your pocket. that should be reasonable.