dating providers/hobbiests????

I've heard of quite a few cases of this type of relationship actually working out. I would think that trust is a HUGE part of it. Also depends on the 2 individuals who are entering into the relationship.

I've heard of quite a few cases of this type of relationship actually working out. I would think that trust is a HUGE part of it. Also depends on the 2 individuals who are entering into the relationship. Originally Posted by Allie_Kat

Allie, you hit it right on.. and that is true of ALL relationships.

Been there, done that. She couldn't get over how we met. She left the life soon after we broke up.

I think i would...

I think the whole concept is screwed up both in civilian life and as a professional arrangement.

Live alone and live free!!!

My ATF (this was while I lived on the East coast) used to call me on occasion for booty calls - all off the clock of course. I guess I wouldn't call that a date, but we would have dinner then tear each other up now and then, all at no cost (other than dinner, but we usually paid for our own meals in that case). Originally Posted by bikebryan

you gotta be kiddin me, she gave you freebies and you made her buy own dinner?????

I was wanting to hear from the women about dating hobbyest too, i can't believe women in the general population would be very receptive. it doesnt look real good on our resumes.

Dog you and I need to meet...i bet you got some stories! Originally Posted by bigdeal

Yeah but unfortuately the statutes of limitations have not expired on most of them

I think the whole concept is screwed up both in civilian life and as a professional arrangement.

Live alone and live free!!! Originally Posted by catnipdipper

This is off target but CatNip are you alright man, your posts seem to be down and negative and not nearly a reflection of how you usually wright. PM me if you got something going on you need help with or whatever.

you gotta be kiddin me, she gave you freebies and you made her buy own dinner????? Originally Posted by rharley

Depended on the situation. She made it clear whether I would be buying, she would be buying, or we would go dutch.

This is off target but CatNip are you alright man, your posts seem to be down and negative and not nearly a reflection of how you usually wright. PM me if you got something going on you need help with or whatever. Originally Posted by dirty dog

You're a good man Charlie Brown.

you gotta be kiddin me, she gave you freebies and you made her buy own dinner????? Originally Posted by rharley

When you are dating someone it isn't considered a "freebie" as much as it is mutual pleasure. And a lot of couples go dutch or alternate who picks up the check.

This is off target but CatNip are you alright man, your posts seem to be down and negative and not nearly a reflection of how you usually wright. PM me if you got something going on you need help with or whatever. Originally Posted by dirty dog

No really it's cool man, Catman is just having a series of flashbacks. He should hopefully be back to his usual tilt soon..

I had a strict "no dating clients" policy that had worked great for me for some time...then I let my guard down earlier this year... *sigh*

Turns out I was in a great "imaginationship" for about 4 months.

It finally dawned on me one day that he was either a) still married, or b) i was one of many of his "on the road girlfriends". He worked on the oil pipeline and traveled constantly. I was naive enough to think that he was perfect for me because we were both constantly so busy, but we managed our schedules so that I was always touring in or near the city he was working in, so for awhile it worked out great!

Then I started catching him in bullshit little lies that he had no reason in the world to make up, and his stories didn't always make sense or pan out...and then it dawned on me, he was having a hard time keeping them straight because he was telling so many, possibly to several girls.

My final straw was a couple months ago when I was in KC for a couple days, where he was supposed to be, too...and he didn't manage to make it over ONE single night the entire time I was there. Pretty clear he didn't wanna be there, right? But he had the audacity to send me about 6 pics of his cock the next day, I guess hoping to appease me. Instead, it disgusted me, and I knew right away the obvious disrespect he had for me. A week later he wrote wanting to know if we were still talking or not. I didn't dignify it with a response, needless to say.

Just pisses me off that I finally let my guard down with a client, hoping he's the one, and that's how it turns out. LAME. lol

* someday my prince will come! haha!*

Sorry for boring you with my story, just figured you wanted REAL, honest, replies from us ladies on our thoughts on it...

I date providers all the time..usually for an hour..