In/Out Call to small hotels - not getting noticed

Interesting thread....

Reminds me of a concern that I have-- being a mainly outcall provider.

In Houston, there are not that many nice hotels (relatively) and in a given week, I may have an outcall to the same hotel multiple times. Valets at various hotels have even started giving me familiar glances. Of course, I park on the street or in the garage whenever possible, but with some hotels thats just not possible.

So my question is: How the heck do you blend in and not be noticed if you have appts at the same hotels over and over and over......?

Maybe I should start wearing a disguise/mask haha.

I do quite a bit of traveling and when I do schedule a lady to do an outcall, I meet them in the parking lot and accompany them inside. Since the hotel staff is very familiar with me, they do not say a thing.

Just my take on it and it always works out.

The Colonel

I never have issues with hotel / motel staff. In most cases I just walk in and act like I'm talking on my cell phone. Loud enough so they can hear that I'm getting ready to take a shower and I'll get there as fast as I can. I look like I belong. They don't have a clue who is staying there! So long as you are deliberate you should never have an issue. From a hobbyist point of view anyway.

I don't undestand what the big deal is about when there are plenty of traveling business men that meet up at the motel room and then they go out drinking. That paronoid mentality will get you all flustered and acting stupid. See what happened to SL avatar with all the confusion.

I don't undestand what the big deal is about when there are plenty of traveling business men that meet up at the motel room and then they go out drinking. That paronoid mentality will get you all flustered and acting stupid. See what happened to SL avatar with all the confusion. Originally Posted by Denver Broncos

This may depend on the hotel you are visiting, but have you considered parking a block or two away and then having the client meet you at a side door/secondary entrance as to avoid the staff?

Recently, I had a date wit 2 girls. They didn't want to walk through the lobby to get to my room. When they got to the hotel, they called and asked me to let them in one of the doors down the hall. Worked out well.

Interesting thread....

Reminds me of a concern that I have-- being a mainly outcall provider.

In Houston, there are not that many nice hotels (relatively) and in a given week, I may have an outcall to the same hotel multiple times. Valets at various hotels have even started giving me familiar glances. Of course, I park on the street or in the garage whenever possible, but with some hotels thats just not possible.

So my question is: How the heck do you blend in and not be noticed if you have appts at the same hotels over and over and over......?

Maybe I should start wearing a disguise/mask haha. Originally Posted by Tracey P

Hmmmm....

The hotels that I am thinking of do not have any side doors that I know of. Unless I walked in through the kitchen or loading dock.

When using a hotel as an incall location....I always let the guy know where to find the elevator....ie..."hang a right just past the front desk". That way they do appear as if they belong there.

I am sure this has been covered before, but cannot find anything after searching for a bit now.

I declined an outcall to a hotel with a very small lobby and no restaurant or bar.

I am a bit paranoid of walking in and then leaving an hour or so later. I do know to dress very low key (not in CFM shoes, dressed to the nines, and etc).

I've read several times where hotel staff and security work with police when they notice something out of line.

What do you all do to not look suspicious? Originally Posted by gigi_gypsy

Small hotel or big hotel it doesn't matter.

A professional will do her research and determine if the place is safe for her suitors or not.

Here's what I have came up with: It is not so much about the size of the hotel but how busy the hotel is. The Italian boutique hotel I stayed at in NYC only had 180 rooms. Let me tell you, it was perfect! The rooms were elegant. The service was spectacular and most of all, they were busy! There was so many people in the lobby you would have gone unnoticed even if you were the type to see 5 people a day. For me, I see only two people a day so this hotel was just right.

Again this is in NYC and during the holiday season ... everywhere is busy. Familiarize yourself with the hotels in your area so you can get a sense of how busy they are.

What do I do to not look suspicious? Well I look like a normal person. Don't be all hookerfied walking through the lobby and no one will care.

As for meeting people in the lobby, I will not do that. There are bars/restaurants around and I do not mind driving/getting a driver. The whole lobby thing is not smart at all especially if you're meeting more than one man a day plus I feel that it's too businesslike.

I guess wearing a Groucho Marx nose and glasses mask is out.

I guess wearing a Groucho Marx nose and glasses mask is out. Originally Posted by pyramider

I don't appreciate being outed! LOL

convention center hotels or hotels with meeting rooms that stay busy are best for incall.....easy to blend in!

If you have a smaller hotel,just come & go enough during the day so you look like a "tourist"......don't haggle with the maids/don't keep the do not diturb sign on the door too long/and use side entrances for clients if possible{also let the know the client the layout so when he arrives he can blend in

also hobbyist do not bring flowers or a gift bag......use a grocery bag{like whole foods} or a big department store bag{like Peir One/Macys/Buckle} to hide those things.....you will not be so "obvious"

What they said, and make sure there are no obvious differences between your pre- and post-session appearance...

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I just stayed in a boutique hotel in the Garden District in NOLA. It was perfect for hobbying as it was actually three hotels owned by one company on one street. The check in lobby was kitty corner across the street so no one had to walk past staff to get to me. I met them at the gate on the street in my casual street clothes and the entrance to my room was down the side of the building without prying eyes. Plus the fellows all thought it was very cool. I will be booking that place again for my next visit.

Its not against the law to visit someone at a hotel/motel. it should not be the staff concern and not in there best interest to be in your business. Dress and act accordingly. you have a right to be there...