I have to agree with Lilianna, it completely creeps me out and it is absolutely repugnant . . . Elena, you may be correct and it might be innocuous (innocent), but damn if it isn't wrong. I would suppose that if it were intentional, he will keep the handle . . . if it is something he was unaware of, he has been made aware of it now - and, if he is a gentleman, he'll most likely change it (at least he should).
- Jackie