Guess you could finesse this either way... I assume there are ladies that would object to the physical aspect of the "service", along with the cost aspect (spending money on the provider for services), but who would see that it was not an emotional thing.... for the affair, you have the physical, emontional and financial aspects all involved... which I think strikes to the core issue of infidelity and how you personally define it....
My SO tells me that as long as I bring home the moola, treat her and the kiddies well and am "there" when I am home (I travel all the time) and do not embarrass her or otherwise shame our relationship, she is fine with me "doing what I have to do" it's the old case of "DADT"... and, the same goes for her.... strange through it may seem, it has worked for us for more than 16yrs Originally Posted by Roothead
It seems to me that many wives of wealthy men either turn a blind eye to their husband's infidelity, OR, they might have an understanding as you do with your wife. Since I'm Asian, in many Asian cultures, this is the way it is also. Although modern times have seen that when women go to work they're less apt to put up with their husband's mistresses and concubines.
I had a client who said to me that his wife didn't care what he did, that 'he could cheat until his dick fell off' as long as he kept her in high style and all that. That sounded kind of crude to me. I felt like, if a man told me, " You shouldn't care what I do behind your back and I won't care what you do behind mine," then we don't care for each other much at all to begin with. I think I'd rather be alone.
That being said in SOME cases, such as yours, it can work out. Your wife is understanding, and you're never going to leave her, she knows that.
