Provider response to PM or Appointment Request

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I try to respond immediately or at least withen a day or two...but the holidays had my response time delayed

Even though we are having fun in this lifestyle,I think this is also a business and therefore should be run like a business...................... ...with the results being a successful business! Originally Posted by DallasRain

I couldn't agree with you more!

I think that if a provider wants a client, him being new or a repeat, (repeat clients usually have their number and/or is responded to earlier) should, at the very least RESPOND to the PM the same day, even if it to tell a potential client they are "booked" for that day or whatever, as it is called common courtesy.


To many of the providers, this is a business, full time, part time, or however you want to describe it, and being a "business", making good business sense is responding to customers/clients in a TIMELY fashion, or you will not have then for clients any longer or you will never have him as a client. Most of the providers I have been in contact with are judicious in their initial response (thank you, ladies), but some of the providers do not care about giving a timely response, if they even reply at all, maybe because there is another "John" that will be contacting them soon, they have enough business, they do not feel like it, or they flat out do not care to be considerate of another person's time. As the old saying goes, if you treat someone good, they will tell a few people, if you treat someone bad, then they will tell 20+ people.

So to "summarize" this statement:

INITIAL response should be same day (within 24 hours)
SCREENING response should also be within 24 hours, but maybe not the same day
As far as seeing the client for an appointment, that is another matter and totally separate from this thread, even though it is somewhat related.

I say thirty minutes or it's free Originally Posted by CoHorn

I knew sex was just like pizza.

I think that if a provider wants a client, him being new or a repeat, (repeat clients usually have their number and/or is responded to earlier) should, at the very least respond to the PM the same day, even if it to tell a potential client they are "booked" for that day or whatever, as it is called common courtesy. Originally Posted by bigdog0311

I agree 100%.....I am low volume but I respond within a few hours even if it is to say I am booked today. If I happen to be gone for the day, when I do get back I respond to ALL inquiries.

I've never had to wait more than a few hours for a Provider response, thank you ladies. But, I would certainly wait for a couple of days for a Provider approval since I prefer to schedule several days in advance and I know the ladies have Real Lives too.

For me, same day means within 24hrs. If I send a request at 11:50pm, I would not expect a response until the next afternoon or so.

For my repeat clients - they know how to get an almost instant reply - unless I'm actually in class or at work, which at work, I am blocked from texts and internet until I am off work.

So, for those cases...either on my lunch break or after work...I reply to my repeats (or regulars) that actually have that special way to contact me. I got rid of my hobby phone for a reason. I'm not an "on call" hooker. I'm one of those "low low volume girls. And that's how I like it, and I'm pretty sure most of my kind of clients like it that way as well.

Yes, this is a business for me too...but the way I run my business is that the chances of me seeing you right away are slim to none anyways, so guys might as well move on to the next one whether I can reply right away or not.

I think most guys know that when they contact me in the first place. It's pretty much why I say I prefer P411 clients. Those are pretty much the ONLY guys that have ANY chance of seeing me the same day.

Other providers are just too unreliable at getting back to ME in a timely fashion. Many do get back quickly (and thanks), but I'm not putting my name on the line doing a last min cancel - because some girl doesn't reply to me in time. No thanks.

Same day! If he calls I usually answer the phone right away because it's always with me. And if someone leaves a message I try to get back to him in as little time as possible. It's just the thing to do.

I sent a P411 request for a session last November to a provider that didn't look at my profile until yesterday. This same provider is on record about her business being "slow".

As counter intuitive as it may sound, the slower things are, the lower my response rate is. Go figure...

P411 has certainly made this easier. I like to submit a pre-screen request to ladies I am interested in meeting. If this takes a couple days for them to verify, no big deal. When it comes to actually setting an appointment, it is nice to hear back on the same day. But I understand that this is not always possible. Next day is generally fine. That also allows for the lady to revisit screening info - everybody should have the opportunity to make sure they are playing safe.

I say thirty minutes or it's free Originally Posted by CoHorn

so thats your angle...LOL j/k

I say within 24 hours because sometimes you just can't respond sooner...

Same day usually but it depends on the provider, their posting style, how often they are on here. I exclusively request appointments thru this site. The one thing that does kinda get to me is when it shows they've read my PM and have logged in a few times and I don't get a response. So if you read them PM just respond! If I send a pm Monday morning and they don't even login until Tuesday afternoon but respond at that time then that's understandable.

I usually try to respond the same day depending when the request is sent. Now that I am working a part time job outside of the hobby sometimes I am not able to respond until the following day but I always try to respond within 24 hours.