Advice For New Gentlemen

It's her business and if she's satisfied with her income while adhering to whatever rules she wants to use, then who the hell are you all to give her any shit about it? Originally Posted by Doove

As I said, I'll say anything draw to Doove out.

Seriously, I hope we can have a candid discussion, without malice, of how much anonymity we are willing to give up in order to partake in this lifestyle. We should all take proper precautions according to our own standards, but there is no guarantee no matter what we do. Things can go wrong even in a civilian relationship with "known" individuals.

ms_elizabeth
My Vagina's Lined w/ Gold





Wonder if these guys would have a lot to lose.

says the woman having all the problems and posting stuff like this http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=338946 and this http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=331130

wow, indeed... Originally Posted by ms_elizabeth

mmmm one link asking to please stop collecting other lives data on me. And one asking do not give out data on another if you have any.

You seem to be on the side of get all you can get on others. And must have it first hand. Not depending on others that may have had it. But deleted after things went well, or will not give it out other than yes ok, no not ok.

Where I(other than a few)know very little of most others on this board. Where I do know some things on others, from dealing with. Yet to much on some others. As it was given out over the boards during a on line disagreement. I saw before mods red edit out. But it was stuff I did not need to know. Yet I know as one was using what they know to hurt others. Not good but not that bad as mmmmm its all in the family.

But it has on this very board also used to hurt others in there home life, work life, and any other life they may have out side of this. male and female.

We should all take proper precautions according to our own standards, but there is no guarantee no matter what we do. Originally Posted by jackfengshui

No doubt. In regards to safety and privacy we should all proceed within the confines of our own individual comfort levels. This applies to hobbyists and providers, and none of us deserves to be given a hard time about it.

But like i say, until she uses any information gathered in a way that's detrimental to any of her clients, then she and only she benefits or suffers from her rules.

Girls have a right to charge $600/hr if they wish, they have a right to insist on performing only cbj's if they wish, and they have a right to screen however they wish, all without people coming down on them for it.

Doove, You do make a good point. But I would never tell some one new to the game or just this board its ok to give out this type of information.

Ms. E,
I can read through the lines. It is obvious you are a trusted provider. It does ease a mind when gentlemen provide the info a gal requests. :--)
I think people are blowing the quote above out of proportion...


My contact page states:

"I believe that safe is fun, soft is hot, and discretion is paramount!

One should insist on visiting a lady who requires a simple and efficient verification process; That way, I trust that you practice good judgment! ;--)

A land line work number is required for the purpose of screening.

References are generally not accepted.

Date-check, P411, or Room-Service members may be asked to supply additional info."


I have and will continue to accept references from some ladies I trust and hold in high esteem, or those that I believe represent themselves in a preferred manner. It kind of ends up that the majority of references I receive are mostly from exactly those type of ladies (which says to me the man prefers a woman who screens thoroughly.)

And yeah, I really really want to know that a newbie is not LE. They obviously are on top of their game if they are renting apartments in Syracuse for 6 months at a stretch... It's plum crazy how much latitude LE has been given to conduct busts.


I want to "mingle" with people who are NOT placing themselves in precarious and dangerous situations.

I lose a lot of business over my screening, but I have also gained a lot of business from the same. Being thorough and trustworthy is a good thing for both the goose and the gander. I trust, more so, the gentlemen who are readily compliant with my screening to not be frequently visiting ladies who like to play with fire.

Ahh, but I also must say that people have a right to do whatever makes them the most comfortable...

Ms. E,
I can read through the lines. It is obvious you are a trusted provider. It does ease a mind when gentlemen provide the info a gal requests. :--)
I think people are blowing the quote above out of proportion...


My contact page states:

"I believe that safe is fun, soft is hot, and discretion is paramount!

One should insist on visiting a lady who requires a simple and efficient verification process; That way, I trust that you practice good judgment! ;--)

A land line work number is required for the purpose of screening.

References are generally not accepted.

Date-check, P411, or Room-Service members may be asked to supply additional info."


I have and will continue to accept references from some ladies I trust and hold in high esteem, or those that I believe represent themselves in a preferred manner. It kind of ends up that the majority of references I receive are mostly from exactly those type of ladies (which says to me the man prefers a woman who screens thoroughly.) Originally Posted by SweetElizabeth

but p411 nor room-service will pass that on. And you will take references. She will not, or give.

I sure hope where one works or other life data is not being passed provider to provider.

Doove, You do make a good point. But I would never tell some one new to the game or just this board its ok to give out this type of information. Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

Yeah, that's a fair comment.

A provider can insist on seeing your driver's license, tax return, even your social security card if that's what she damn well wants to do. It's her business and if she's satisfied with her income while adhering to whatever rules she wants to use, then who the hell are you all to give her any shit about it? Originally Posted by Doove

Doove - It's been a long time since you really pissed me off, but can you really be that much of a bootlicker? You truly are a fukin moron and I think you and Elizabeth should run off and go somewhere far, far away.

and people wonder why I close threads....