Getting bored in the hobby

I dont think we can just assume all or most guys here arent capable of having a monogamous relationship if applicable. Although I cant speak for the married guys at all, but I wouldnt partake if I was. Im personally not married but I have distanced myself from hobbying many times when I was dating and in a relationship. Seeing ladies here is not a sexual addiction for some of us believe it or not, and given the circumstance its definitely fesible to be monogamous. Thats not to judge anyone whos dependent on the hobby for affection here either...just another view.

What I think the hobby does do sometimes is it places an unrealistic performance expectation on a civilian population of ladies you may date who might not possess the skills ladies here might present physically. You can desensitize yourself sorta like watching too much porn etc...to normal means of intimacy and relations unless its "ATF-like", which takes time with a special someone not in the hobby.

Majority wont be monagomous, but some can.

Everyone is different. Some guys can get laid once a month and be perfectly satisfied and others don't ever stop thinking about it. I for one like variety and enjoy beautiful women, have one at home, but still want to have a little variety. I have an ATF and see her when the opportunity is there but in the mean time I also have my eye on several other ladies. I think there are so many reputable well reviewed ladies it would take many years for me to get bored with the hobby. I find just what I am looking for in the hobby, a little variety without the porblems that go along with an affair or even a one night stand. I wish I had discovered it a few years earlier.

For a dawg lookin' to dabble on the side the hobby is like a kid in a candy shop these days. The hobby really has changed with the onset of sites like ECCIE and such. To log on to a site like ECCIE is almost equal to say a guy getting the new issue of Playboy years ago before the internet and sitting in the bathroom to just imagine what it would be like to be with a Pam Anderson, or a Dallas Cowboy cheerleader etc.



The difference is ECCIE, EROS, Backpage, and Craigslist is like a new daily issue, yes generally there are the same 85% of the girls placing ads daily, but there is always that new one, and the best part about it she was a ex Dallas Cowboy cheerleader, or is about as close to resembling a Pam Anderson as the average dog will ever get close to, and the best part is forget about the bathroom she is just a phone call away, and generally at a reasonable rate.