"I am amused that someone would think that I would jump all over the chance to give them an ok in the "hopes" that they will see me again..."
That's not what they were thinking. They likely were concerned about deterring your interest in a future visit, wanted to preserve that with you, like you but want to try someone else, and didn't want to offend you by requesting an okay or spoil whatever interaction they have with you, and generally not want to offend you simply by getting a reference, especially reading into it being put off by lost revenue. Pretty tame considering the list of 'I left my book at home' tales the females of the species have concocted over time. Freud didn't choose the terms 'ego' and 'superego' in his theoretical construct for tingle.
Originally Posted by bartipero
Well luv, when one considers that I had been back and forth to the KC area for years without being seen during those visits while seeing other ladies and then signing up for p411 or needing to update their profile... I think becoming more than just a basic member was the agenda or trying to visit with a woman who utilizes p411 as a safe screening arena..
Also considering that I stated in the above that I did give an OK but back dated the OK to when I actually DID see them well... sorry, but I hardly think either of us knew what they were truly thinking and in my mind - and based on experience (as you seem to be basing your line of thought on your own experiences), the promise of a session for an update to an ok or simply an ok does not endear me to provide said ok..
If a gent wants an OK, set the appt and then we'll go there
Also, damn near anyone could tell you I do not live amongst the easily offended. I don't care if my clients see as many ladies as they like. I am extremely reference friendly and have always loved my "man whore" clients.. if they are not being upfront to try to preserve my feelings, we probably didn't click in the first place if a gent is afraid that I'm going to be peeved by them setting time with another lady..
xoxo
J