Taboo convo topics?

They used to be dd but then he gained a little weight. That's the problem with implants. You can outgrow them.

When a woman gets selfish and the session becomes entirely about her. That's kind of a turn on up to a point then it starts to turn me off. Cause it's like hey!! I'm the one paying for this! Digging your nails into my back when you know I have an SO. Not cool at all. I had a provider big O on me. That's fine. It was 30 minutes into an hour session. She acted as if I had an O and was done. How the hell do you not realize you had the O and not me? WTF? Providers that are 3 hump chumps. Turn off big time.

I agree with the other guys, the session is about "us". As a provider, don't dump or "unload" your drama or baggage on us. We are not your husbands/BFs. Pretend we are the other guy you have seen this week/month. Don't talk about other clients, exes, SOs, kids, guys that you fucked in elementry school, etc. Some providers are very open and will talk about other clients, but unless I'm interested, keep it generic or generalized. Like the others have said, don't ask about our SOs unless we volunteer.

Guys should have similar rules about what they askor talk to the provider about on a personal level. I like to think in terms of a friendly business relationship. I have good friend co-worker who I talk SOs and family about besides work issues. But he has not a clue that I hobby. You almost need to compartmentalization yourself to be in the hobby safely when you have a job and family. Never want to mix them up for dam sure.

Please, please do NOT tell me about your little brother Timmy who needs an operation and that if I could loan you a few hundred you promise to pay me back in a couple of days.

I much prefer the conversation before the "fun" to establish what needs to be done for the fun to be mutually enjoyable. Likes, dislikes, boundries etc.

During the "fun" Keep it to encouragement and direction.

Afterwards, feel free to talk about anything you want. If the time was really fun, I won't care. If it wasn't all that fun, I can leave.

Yeast infection.

"I am so behind on all my bills".
"I hope I don't have a flat after we leave here, my tires are so bald". "My brakes just barely stop".
"My Mom (son, daughter, cousin, friend, SO) is having health issues".

Yowzer I couldn't agree more! That's exactly how I think of things, like a friendly business relationship.

LMFAO @ bbkid and cabletex

My viewpoint is that we have an hour (maybe more if I splurge) and conversations will happen. However, there are plenty of activities that can we can partake in during rest periods that will keep us both from saying things that make the other person uncomfortable.

small talk is good....vibe a lil on each other's personalities.....but not for too long.

no topic will really be off limits with me, but i really dont wanna know ur whole life history

"My period just started today" = no DATY

I feel the same as bbkid
On a side note.....Nan didn't get them larger....he got a reduction. He used to have 40 D's

Talking at the wrong time . What I mean is before a session and in between bells is okay for me but talking while my pleasure should be attended to is a no no.
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The internet is great place to take a lil info and with a lil research and find out a lot on somebody.

I love talking about politics but not during blow jobs. Kills the mood totally for me except if we are roleplaying bill Clinton and Monica Lewinsky. Then I am game .

Back & forth flirting via email or sexting before a session is a mood enhancer..

Talking at the wrong time . What I mean is before a session and in between bells is okay for me but talking while my pleasure should be attended to is a no no.
Don't share any personal info with anybody.
The internet is great place to take a lil info and with a lil research and find out a lot on somebody. Originally Posted by carkido45

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