Providers: Fantasy of being in love off limits?

What's with these guys lately? One epic meltdown and one in progress here...

Send him to Ma'am, Ill bend him over my knee and spank him while I tell him what a good boy he has been....That will show the love.........lol

I have a friend.... Who most of the time is motivated by hormones. Yet there are a few times he's motivated by emotions. Or as he puts it, his heart, yearning for some brief heartfelt connection.

He asked me if he could approach a provider with this type of fantasy play. In other words having a provider role play that she loves him and he loves her.

Is this off limits to a provider? Originally Posted by Still Spunky

get the fuk out of here...LOL...you are joking right?

still spunky, due to your epic melt down, I normally wouldn't give you the time of day, but I'll play nice.

Actually I don't see a thing wrong with a 'being in love' fantasy. After all, fantasies are a part of this hobby.

OK, I'll probably lose my man card for this, but it is what it is.

A few years ago, before BT, I was seeing a provider on a regular basis. A regular basis for me was about once a month. I guess I had seen her on about 4-5 different sessions and I was wondering what would spice things up a bit. I thought, hmmmmmmmmmm, how about a love fantasy. The night I mentioned this to her, maybe I was feeling a bit down, or a bit vulnerable, I can't really remember. Since I felt comfortable with her, I mentioned to her and she thought it was a great idea.

At the end of the session, I knew there was no doubt in my mind that session was one of the best and most intense sessions I had ever had. I won't go into detail about the 'mushy' things that were said, but the 'mushy' things didn't go overboard. Had things gotten too 'mushy' it would have gone from being very romantic and intense to being funny and corny.

If that's your or your buddies fantasy, I say go for it, however I would suggest the provider be a very professional and emotionally mature lady, not some backpage 18 year old. I would also suggest that he had visited with her BCD on numerous occasions.

lol I do agree DJ, The hobby is the place to live out your fantasies and if both parties are game, then hey why not. Its all about having fun and enjoying life.............But I would still like to spank him just a bit........lol

I think it's Still Spunky who's looking for love . in all the wrong places.

Actually I don't see a thing wrong with a 'being in love' fantasy. After all, fantasies are a part of this hobby.

OK, I'll probably lose my man card for this, but it is what it is.

A few years ago, before BT, I was seeing a provider on a regular basis. A regular basis for me was about once a month. I guess I had seen her on about 4-5 different sessions and I was wondering what would spice things up a bit. I thought, hmmmmmmmmmm, how about a love fantasy. The night I mentioned this to her, maybe I was feeling a bit down, or a bit vulnerable, I can't really remember. Since I felt comfortable with her, I mentioned to her and she thought it was a great idea.

At the end of the session, I knew there was no doubt in my mind that session was one of the best and most intense sessions I had ever had. I won't go into detail about the 'mushy' things that were said, but the 'mushy' things didn't go overboard. Had things gotten too 'mushy' it would have gone from being very romantic and intense to being funny and corny.
Originally Posted by DEAR_JOHN

I'm curious D_J....other than this being a full blown GFE/BFE....what else is there? False declarations of love....the "mushy" stuff.

I'm curious D_J....other than this being a full blown GFE/BFE....what else is there? False declarations of love....the "mushy" stuff. Originally Posted by Sarunga

No doubt had I wished to have gone there, I would have gone there in my original post.

Since neither I or my friend know you. But in either case: fuck you! Your comment is out of line as are you.

I normally don't 'splain things cuz either you get my self deprecating humor and the whole cat thing or you don't but I don't want you going off all butt hurt and getting points cuz you thinck I said something toward you in a mean spirited way(I save my mean comments for Carkido and those who are not to be mentioned). Maybe a visit to the hole would bring clarity, or not.

If you'd like to meet some place, I'm sure we could find someone to kick your ass.

That's funny right there...
Originally Posted by Still Spunky

Dude,
Chill out. Hell, I'm the neediest fucktard on the board. Can I offer you a free three month subscription to theboardmanexperience.com to show you there are no hard feelings.

and a kitten
Originally Posted by carkido45

Ebony and Ivory....la la da dee da.

I got 'spanked' enough as a kid. Physically abused (sometimes blatant torture) more like it. Never again will I receive or use any form of corporal punishment. Sorry Ms. Athena. Gotta find a cute ass somewhere else. I also apologize to all you providers looking for a spanking. You won't get it from me. Just quality time getting each other off.

boardman, you notice how the kitten is already planning something for the fucking chihuahua.....ijs.

The kitten is playing chess...ijs

Someone's hacked into carkido's account. I've actually been enjoying his posts.

That picture is awesome...and politically correct. ijs

Enjoy it while you can TG...You know he'll fuck it up soon.