A woman old enough to have a kid(s) whose friends see her and think MILF (See music video for Stacey's Mom).
Originally Posted by S-Man
You've got it right.
A MILF has to be a woman that is old enough to have a teenaged kid, otherwise the term doesn't really have meaning - it wouldn't stand for any distinction.
There is nothing unusual about wanting to fuck a 23 year old who just happens to be a mother. She is 23! She is supposed to be hot. Just look at the young actresses, like Jessica Alba, that have had a kid and are hot. They should be hot. They are young - despite being mothers.
MILF is a compliment that indicates some accomplishment. The ACCOMPLISHMENT comes into play when a woman is older and is still hot enough to draw the attention of the teenage boys that are friends with her son or daughter. Think in terms of Michelle Pfeiffer or Rene Russo. They might be in their 40s or even 50s, but they are still hot.
The term MILF was coined by teenage boys that were discussing which of their classmates had moms that were still hot enough to want to fuck. Most kids their age had fat, out-of-shape moms that they ignored. But a few still had moms that made the other boys fantasize. And there was a great taboo factor to the older woman, too. Hence the name MILF.
I doubt very much those teenage boys were lusting after knocked up teenage girls. That's just a sad situation.