Not sure what to do..

I don't even know his handle on here!
He did do nice things for me, which of course thanked him for, but I don't owe money lol

Pearlsandgold, I dig you're thinking process!
I know all will be ok. Screen shots are a great invention if necessary Originally Posted by aly123_dallas
Aly, I doubt one guy can harm your reputation.

As far as screenshots, just remember to read the rules on posting private communication here. I think it mainly applies to private messages, but some guys may be turned off by any private communication that is put out in the open. However, using those in communication to the mods to prove a review is bogus would be entirely acceptable I believe.

Seems like a lot of guys like to threaten, and many carry out their threats, to use ECCIE and other sites as a club over a lady's head. Hope they recognize that their vendetta gets broadcast to the rest of the ladies to update their DNS list. Most ladies would rather have a longer DNS list than risk dealing with a potential dirtbag.

Granted, it seems to me like the number of multi-handle & new handle hobbyist here grows daily as guys attempt to display their multiple personality disorder in our little cyber world.
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Actually, I think what you have done here is the perfect response. You made the first public move in a way that sends him a warning (I will defend myself), without upping the stakes so much that he is forced to respond. Now it's up to him: does he want to risk the scrutiny of this board in order to carry out his grudge? My guess is if this really is a case of a guy making unwarranted threats, he will back down and this will all go away.
Guess the adage " the best defense is a good offense" is being employed here.
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Yes, providers out there take note: If you have an awful session with a client, and you know it, just come on here and say "Some jerk is going to lie in a review", then all is good. The WK's will be there to defend you before the review has even posted.
Aly, you have a good reputation. Don't worry about one bad review even if it's a lie. I've had you on my to do list for a while and will keep you there. Guess this makes me a W.K.
You have waaaay too many fans....I wouldn't worry about it...
Yea what he said!!!!
Wooohoooo Im under Berkleigh................ Originally Posted by Jaci
It much better in person ...believe me!

---to OP am sorry that is happening to you just ignore him he is using it against you
Best of luck beautiful
Screen shots are a great invention if necessary Originally Posted by aly123_dallas
Whoa... what?! Discretion is paramount in this hobby. I would not recommend doing that or even posting such comments because that sort of path could hurt you worse than one review among many. If he wants to write a bad review for retribution of some sort then let him. You will be fine. If you feel you just have to share such info do it with wisdom and privately with a mod.

Besides, I would be willing to bet there is a whole niche market of men who look for a 'no' when previous reviews say yes. They may be compelled to find out for themselves if it is true or not among many other reasons. Truth be told if his review is an oddity among the others you have already he will likely be unintentionally doing you a favor in the end as long as you keep trying to do your best.

If he truly is doing this as a game to get you don't play, it will only make his high your low.
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It much better in person ...believe me!

---to OP am sorry that is happening to you just ignore him he is using it against you
Best of luck beautiful Originally Posted by safire_sweet
....*SIGH*

....Blushing and Speechless
....





OP-

Well, I don't disagree with telling him to "go fuck himself"....
But..........
If he is making threats and creating unnecessary drama, telling him to "go fuck himself", could piss him off...and cause you more trouble.

Lately, I've read too many alerts on Providers being hurt because the guy snapped or was just having a bad day.

I'm guilty of cussing out Hobbyists like that, sometimes on the daily.

I know it's not appropriate, but neither are controlling, ignorant assholes.
Sometimes my day is not complete if I don't tell someone to "FUCK OFF" lol
Just be careful as there really are some sick individuals among us and IMO, just wait to see what he does and handle appropriately.

You can't please everyone and lots of us have experienced it.......


Ignore him.
For Sure.
Don't allow this Jerk, w/a fake name (handle) the satisfaction to cyber bully you via a "Hooker Board".

*Gosh, that must really make him feel like a Man....
If I were you I'd say...


"Fuck you, go ahead and post it...I have SEVEN pages full of YES recommendations...

"If you think one NO will hurt me you are even more crazier than I thought...Plus, your dick is REALLY little"





That'll teach him
aha! The "little dick" defense. Works every time.
Big Dicks do command BIG ADS!
Be careful! Our nemesis apparently has deep pockets.... I'm one of his investment partners and he invested heavily in advertisement for this site....his international book "GUTS" is now in the headlines next to several major player banners on front page of ECCIE! He "loves" the team spirit! Do you all enjoy it as well?
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Jason, dude, what the hell are you talking about? Do you actually think anyone here really gives a shit? I for one wish the "major banners" would go away, but that's just me. You're a fucking troll. Get the hell off of my screen.
You're a loser buddy. See Aly??? This is what we're talking about. You're too classy for this shit.
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LMAO!