A Question of Verifications

You know what, link us to the post whether its on another board or this one. That way we can see for ourselves what happened.

Who is whining about how guys treat us? Your "friend" and you seem to be the only ones whining.

Quite frankly I'm tired of the "I pay YOU, YOU better remember me and you better treat me better than anyone else in the world" mentality that some have.

You're right, the hobby is an illusion and right now, you don't seem to understand it or your friend doesn't understand it.

You keep missing the point that most of us have made......

1. She answered him publicly because that's what some ladies do.
2. It was 4 freakin years ago that he had met her.
3. She probably didn't remember him.
4. Contrary to popular belief, we ladies don't answer to you.
5. Again, it was 4 yrs ago and she probably didn't remember him.

Do you remember who you fucked once from 4 yrs ago? Oh wait, that would mean you'd have to step into our shoes for a moment to totally comprehend just what we do and how many times we do it. Then and only then you just might get it. Key word being.......might.

RR - Your trying to make it into something it's not, there is no hidden inner meaning, no malicious intent. STOP BEING A GIRL.

Bristol I afree. Thanks for your input.

Let me see if I understand this, because I was really confused by the initial post (lots of "he"s and "she"s)

1) Friend posted on a board saying "I'm coming to town and I like __. Any ladies available to meet?"

2) A lady responded saying "I would love to meet you if you have references."

3) Friend was all hurt because he saw her four years ago and wrote a positive review, but she didn't remember him and wanted to verify him again.

Is that it? Wow.

You know, even if she did remember him she still probably would have wanted more recent references.

KCQ- very close, except "friend" is RR and the whole post is RR being butt hurt about a girl forgetting about him on a public forum.

If I had to take a stab at the motivation behind the post I would say he wanted his bruised ego stroked with massive agreement.

Lol then maybe he should have posted this in Texas.

I guess you miss my friend's point. Why respond publically giving the impression that they never met. She could have answered him privately. Rather she chose to answer him on the board and present herself as NEVER having met him. With one click she would have seen that he reviewed her indicating that they have met. Privately she could have asked for more current references.

This hobby is an illusion. Ignoring this fact and treating people as just another "dick" cuts into the bottom line. If you do not care about your bottom line, then continue with that business philosophy, but stop whining about how guys treat you. Originally Posted by Red Rock

Are you fuckin serious man? Its like reading a rant from a spoiled child... You clearly need to reevaluate your views on nearly everything starting from open forums, the hobby, the females, and clients in general.

YOU, yes you as in Redrock, need to harden the fuck up and realize that people forget shit. If you go through life getting butthurt at every turn you are cheating yourself out of some happiness.

The blunt but truthful fact RR is you just weren't that memorable. I know we men tend to want to believe that each sexual encounter we bestow upon these needy and hungry females is in fact so wonderful, electric, satisfying and climatic that it is engrained into their brain as if it was written by lightning, but the fact is in most cases it was 3.5 minutes of grunting, sweating and flabby bellys slappin by middleage men with bad breath and god being merciful bannish the memorys from their minds almost immediately upon our leaving so as deter the onset of PTSD.

Let me see if I understand this... Originally Posted by KCQuestor

Thanks for the summation, KCQ, cuz I was pretty confused by the OP's intent, too. Sounds to me like his "friend" lives in his pocket.

...I would say he wanted his bruised ego stroked... Originally Posted by Bristol

Isn't that what us guys all want, Bristol? Hell, I am certain that my ladies back in 2008 remember me! HA!

I just figured most guys always assume during the heat of passion that the ladies aren't going to remember the guy. Why else would they be shouting reminders, "Who's your daddy? Who's your daddy?"...

The blunt but truthful fact RR is you just weren't that memorable. I know we men tend to want to believe that each sexual encounter we bestow upon these needy and hungry females is in fact so wonderful, electric, satisfying and climatic that it is engrained into their brain as if it was written by lightning, but the fact is in most cases it was 3.5 minutes of grunting, sweating and flabby bellys slappin by middleage men with bad breath and god being merciful bannish the memorys from their minds almost immediately upon our leaving so as deter the onset of PTSD. Originally Posted by dirty dog

Damm DD! And here all this time, I thought what you just described was making beautiful, nasty, passionate, animalistic love to the ladies.

And I am so good at what you described...and thought as a result that I have been so memorable with the ladies, based upon that style!

Well at least I now know to brush my teeth at least 8 hours b4 visiting a lady...who would have guessed???

I am now both heart broken...and have my tongue firmly placed in my check, lol

All right, from the information presented in this thread, he REVIEWED her 4 yrs ago yet she did not remember him?
If someone reviews me, I'm going to remember them. No review, I may not remember that far back unless something memorable happened during the session that will stick in my mind.
Point blank period.

Silly girl...you lovely, smart and sexy woman. Do you have room for my cream?

Well I did the same thing once and booked with a lady I had seen about a year earlier and didn't remember her at all even when she smiled and greeted me by my real name, how awkward. But I did remember her tattoos and then by the end of the session it all came back to me. It was a defining moment in coming to grips with realization that I was a manwhore. Things have been better since then. Really.

What was really cool was how well she handled it. It didn't bother her at all. So my recommendation is to act like this woman, gent. I was very impressed. Hell, I think I'm gonna look her up again now that this has reminded me. Just need to remember her name now.

...just kidding.

She couldn't remember a pink one-eyed 6" inch tall bald guy with a big head?

I think I know that guy!