Happened to me once... and only once.
Well reviewed and seen youngin who was part of a group of well known and reviewed providers one of which is still around. You think the parking lot is bad... try getting into the apartment, naked and dripping fresh out of the shower you took to freshen up.... to walk into the bedroom and get the "I can't... blah blah. You're too big... blah blah. But i'll take half your money if you wanna talk." Silly lil girl... if I wanted to talk I wouldn't be butt ass naked with a raging boner (well no longer raging at that point) and I haven't broke a spinner yet. But hey.. its her call. Better to not do it then to pay for a terrible lay. The timing was piss poor though since the time to do that was upon walking in.
I wasn't all that polite as I put my clothes on and left... Dialed a standby on the way home though and made a detour and anger/grudge fucked her instead which she enjoyed

Even more so when she got twice her usual rate that I dropped on her which is what the youngin would have received and laughed about the silliness of youth in the hobby.
I reviewed both sessions on the old board and surprisingly little WK'ing about the situation. It was not a total loss... I got what I wanted/needed at the time, another provider got a little windfall and I learned to ask certain questions BEFORE even booking. Happy to say there has not been a repeat of that situation.
So yeah it sucks... but it could have been a lot worse
BTW.. I can't remember the spinners name, but I still remember the standby!
I bet if more of you guys posted these types of incidences, well, first off, we'd have to create a forum JUST for that! LOL.
I bet it would help others from wasting their time with possible NS/Cold Feet providers.
Originally Posted by ItalianaPrincess
Yep.. a few reasons why you don't see more of em.
The nearly automatic WK'ing or shooting of the messenger that happens.
The nearly automatic Dramafest that insues when a guy mentions it here.
Most guys would probably be ill served posting that right after the fact since their choice of language, tone etc would contribute to the above.
In some cases, depending on the particulars, they would be less than willing to discuss it. I have no shame.. so I posted mine but I can see why others in a similar situation would have avoided it as a number of PM's I received after my review indicated.
I think more should though.... so I agree with you on that 100%. This board is about information for the hobbyist but that gets lost in the rush to garner favor, avoid being blacklisted etc.