Why do no providers respond to me?

I haven't seen many new independents in the last few years. When I was, I did my shopping in ads and reviews. I would see someone very appealing to me and watch for a while until I knew I wanted to see her. I don't jump on "fresh meat" on the board.

Unless the lady specified some other contact method I started with PM. At least that confirms that I am on the board, which phone and txt do not. I nearly always got a response. If not, I might try one more time in a week or two in case she was just busy with life.

Usually we would briefly "get acquainted" and then a phone call to schedule. For me I will not schedule without a call. My judgement from hearing her voice/personality never led me wrong. If she sounded inviting, not one time did it turn out unsatisfying. On the rare occasion that I went ahead after a questionable call, we were not a match.

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The majority only respond when they are broke.

Don't tell anyone, but hookers really don't like most of us fucktards. Originally Posted by monkmonk

There is the answer in two short concise sentences.

I don't think I'm "kicking any tires" if I send an email saying I want to schedule, what is your availability. A lot of girls have schedules but apparently I'm wasting sometimes time by asking what it is. Two I'm interested in work between two states, but I guess I'm not allowed to ask when they will be in town either? God forbid a provider see that I have 4 reviews on here, and 2 oks on the P411 I provide.

There are so many providers out there to where you will never have to say there are no more that I can see, there are new ones coming in every day and that is just on this site, not counting the other adult boards as well as P411. Relax and just keep plugging away, but do not sound as if you are begging to spend your money. You will never have all the providers like you nor will you like all providers, just be cool and don't sweat it.

As an example, I set an appointment with a provider days ago and I really wanted to see her, but she likes the text communication and unfortunately for me, my hobby cell is a pay as you go cell phone that fits in the palm of your hand and you can close your fingers and you cannot see the phone, it has no camera on it and certainly not a keyboard. Long story short, she asked me if we were still on for our appointment and I text yes, but she wanted me to do it again but with a longer sentence I guess, so I texting as fast as I can, but when you have no keyboard and those little tiny buttons, it was tough so I did not respond to her fast enough and she sent my a couple of scathing texts back telling me she did not want to see me nor to contact her anymore, saying I was wasting her time, ect. so I just never responded! I do not blame her for being upset, but I could not explain to her my situation. I saw another provider this evening and had a great session for less of a donation than the provider I originally wanted to see.

Things will work out!

WOW, not aware of this problem, when I find a girl I want to see, I always just send a PM, tell them who I am , tell them what I want, tell them to read my reviews and state the fact that I have plenty of references. I guess being on this site so long and known by most folks does open doors for me, I hope your luck improves, because a guy can never get too much pussy, JR

You need to send screening info in your email or we don't take it seriously

I don't think I'm "kicking any tires" if I send an email saying I want to schedule, what is your availability. A lot of girls have schedules but apparently I'm wasting sometimes time by asking what it is. Two I'm interested in work between two states, but I guess I'm not allowed to ask when they will be in town either? God forbid a provider see that I have 4 reviews on here, and 2 oks on the P411 I provide. Originally Posted by smockdoiley

Yes you are. By not requesting a specific day and time, your putting the Provider in the position of doing it for you.

They don't like that. They expect YOU to set the date, not them.

Get your day and time, pick a few ladies, ask them and go from there.
I am serious when I say they don't like it when we ask them when they are available.

I for one communicate very well with my clients. If you contact me with Yo Moma,or Whatsupwichya you will hear nothing but click...just be patient maybe is a OMEN your not suppose to be doing this....lol
Good Luck
Kisses,Jaci

If the OP cannot figure this out there is always downloading porn and rubbing one out.

I'm sure most ladies have some availability almost every day. I agree, best to ask for a specific day and time block, like Tuesday evening, then after getting to know eachother a bit, can pin down the exact time and place.

I wonder if you are hitting the gals up with this request in your first communication, then perhaps they aren't quite up to it?

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=405500

Some ladies are very good about responding and some are not. Many ladies want to here your voice and talk to you on the phone. They can tell a lot about from what you say and how you talk. If someone does not respond, move on to the next one that does. These ladies also have a life outside the hobby which affects when they are available for a date.

Some ladies will not respond to incomplete appt request.

Have the time you want already included. You may want 5pm, however in between emailing back and forth with "are you available", you will lose out because a gentlemen with all his info and ready will get your slot.

Not sure what to say about not getting a response on P411. Are you talking about services in the emails or communication.

I typically give very little led time for an appointment since I never know when I have time to play. I seldom have problems with short notice appointments. I almost always use P411, I either PM them or request an appt. if you read most good providers info, their prefered contact method is listed.

I typically give very little led time for an appointment since I never know when I have time to play. I seldom have problems with short notice appointments. I almost always use P411, I either PM them or request an appt. if you read most good providers info, their prefered contact method is listed. Originally Posted by sinep1

If any of these women are considered Flavor of the Month, she may be overwhelmed with requests from other horny guys who have given her the requested references.

If you are using P411, the PM form warns you not to use it for requesting appointments. The women may be ignoring appointments as it's against P411 policy.

Have you attempted to be pre-screened by the women whom you wish to see? If your schedule only permits you to plan ahead for the next day, pre-screening would allow the women time to verify your references.