Afraid to Repeat?

The providers that I have seen .......They are very few ....I would welcome E-mail or PMs from them ..They know who they are and they are very special people in my life .....I enjoyed my time spent with them and I hope that they enjoyed it also(not just a donation) ...Most I have seen on many occasions...several just once ....but that is because of location or scheduling problems ..... There are also many I would enjoy seeing again and there are many I would really like to meet for the first time ....but such is life...it's not all fair in the Hobby Life ....just like real life

I see the same ladies over and over, with a sprinkling of new one's frome time-to-time....the one's I have an intellectual, personal relationship as well as the obvious physical attraction. There was only one who might have tempted me to do something drastic....thank goodness she retired.

I love repeats too!

But I so totally agree with "missing someone"... I LIKE THAT

There was one client I saw often for a couple years that I was really into...
He is sort of well known here and has seen many of us...
Ugh ... we had some great times ... hung out ... became good friends ... then I was almost tempted but ... I cut it off because I didn't feel I could see him anymore.

I am so glad I made that decision. LOL

Answer to original question, yes I upon occasion I have avoided a repeat to a good session. What if it is not as good as the first? What if it is?

First time is always the best. Second time is never as good as the first time, because my expectations and fond memories were too much. Third, fourth and fifth times better than the second but still not as good as the first time. After that, it starts to get old.

I don't understand this "I'm afraid I'll fall in love" stuff. Think she'll see you without a donation involved? Is that not enough to slap you back into reality?

I don't do a lot of repeats.

I don't think it is nice to let a woman fall in love with me as so many of them do and keep seeing them knowing I do not feel the same way.

J.G., Never thought of that. Good point. Now I know why they are calling me all the time. It realy has nothing to do with my wallet at all!

Repeats are just repeats, anything more then that defeats the definition of hobbyst. We all have a favorite in our hobby...

Absolutely not afraid to repeat - in fact, I look forward to it. I put a lot of effort into setting up the initial meeting to make sure that there is a hint of chemistry between us. If the actual experience exceeds my expectations, then I will absolutely be back. Have had multiple sessions with a couple of providers, and they continue to get better. The nervousness of initial meeting is gone, we both have gained knowledge of what the other likes, and the sessions have been mind-blowing.

I have no delusions of love. This is a hobby for me and a business for the ladies I see. I have gained a sense of friendship from several ladies, and this plays nicely into follow-on fantasy. Guys like me don't get to spend intimate time with ladies like this in the real world. So indulging in fantasy with a lady I have come to know is simply an escape from the world an hour at a time. Although the fantasy is great, there is little danger that I am going to fall in love with them, and I think even less danger in the opposite direction.

Repeat visits have been great, and I am planning a few more with ladies I have recently seen for the first time. IMO, absolutely nothing to be scared of, but lots to be gained.

+1 Caleb

Couldn't agree more. If you click with the lady, no reason not to repeat.

I agree Caleb. I am yet to find my repeat.

So what we have learned is WALDT. No wrong answer I suppect some of the reasons a person is in the hobby has an effect on this aspect of the hobby.

My version of repeat visit is msog. Haha

I don't understand this "I'm afraid I'll fall in love" stuff. Think she'll see you without a donation involved? Is that not enough to slap you back into reality? Originally Posted by jkerouac

Well, since she did, in fact, see me without me buying more than a dinner ever again, and did so for months...