Use of the word "trick" when talking publicly about your client...

Darter, I think you got it...some of us have had to learn to become desensitized, on a certain level. Providers have to grow *thick skin,* to be able to manage, in the hobby. Originally Posted by Likinikki

That is true, but I also think we have to draw lines that we are unwilling to cross to keep our own self respect.

I agree about using the word "trick." Also, I do not like when hobbyists call providers "whores", "prostitutes", etc. It shows more about them as a person than the provider. When it comes down to it it is indeed about respect. Some guys may not agree with me and I am ok with that.

Darter, I think you got it...some of us have had to learn to become desensitized, on a certain level. Providers have to grow *thick skin,* to be able to manage, in the hobby. Originally Posted by Likinikki

That's unfortunate, but I'm sure all to true.

That is true, but I also think we have to draw lines that we are unwilling to cross to keep our own self respect. Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

Fancy, just to be clear, I am not condoning the use of any of those terms. I'm sure I have never used them. What I'm saying that if the ladies have to put up with the "titles" I posted earlier, I don't think guys should be surprised or cringe at something the ladies may have to say about us.

I would never use *trick* to describe my *friends,* but I have met some jerks and psychos through the years! (lol) Originally Posted by Likinikki

Please, I prefer 'asshole'...

I'm the nicest trick a hooker will ever met

Just ask

I'm the nicest trick a hooker will ever met

Just ask Originally Posted by ThatOneNiceGuy

and the skankyest trick too, bitch!

To me it is a good indicator of the character of the person using the various words. Being called a trick lets me know the attitude of the provider and I would probably look for someone else. Calling a lady here a hooktard, whore or any other demeaning term probably makes sure you pay the full rate and get treated as you deserve.

I'll answer to just about anything, especially if your about to treat me real nice. Hell I've used aliases or hobby names as much as I've used my real name so half the time I don't know who the heck I am anyway.

I tend not to use terms as discussed (here and verbally in my daily life) and when I see them I take the time to consider the source

===> and you know what?? / nine times out of ten - I'm right..

It has just struck me that I really haven't heard it used on the SA section of our website.

Just goes to show you how much Class our San Antonio Women have.

Well said, Pb!

I love magic tricks! Now you see it; now you don't. Then you see it again. Wash, rinse, repeat!

And now I will make you penis disappear ! Then reappear ! This disappear again over and over really fast ! Lol JJ

And now I will make you penis disappear ! Then reappear ! This disappear again over and over really fast ! Lol JJ Originally Posted by Naughty_Jezabelle

I almost spewed my drink out my nose! People are looking at me weird. LOL!

Score two for me !