P411 OKs-- have you ever refused to give one after seeing a client?

thanks ladies for your responses.. sorry that happened Fancy, you're a sweetie.

I would think that if it didn't go well they would not ask for an ok..but I guess you never know.

Ive never declined to give one cause they were all OK Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

Oooooh SNL. That's why your first name is "Sweet."

I asked for an OK, even if my "performance" was pathetic... Can you say, "slam, bam...?" Hell, for years I thought MSOG was something you got at a Chinese restaurnat...

I always received my okay - maybe the ladies felt sorry for me?

Just sayin'

Huck

Oooooh SNL. That's why your first name is "Sweet."

I asked for an OK, even if my "performance" was pathetic... Can you say, "slam, bam...?" Hell, for years I thought MSOG was something you got at a Chinese restaurnat...

I always received my okay - maybe the ladies felt sorry for me?

Just sayin'

Huck Originally Posted by urhuckleberry

Pitty?.... i cant see that. Id give an ok for a pathetic performance and him acting like a total gentleman than for a stellar performance and him acting like an ass.

In all the years, I have only had this happen one time. He was very rude & agressive. He over stayed his time by almost 30 minutes and was just an overall pain in the ass to deal with.

I remember thinking as soon as he was walking out the door ....

"I would never see him again and no way in hell would I tell another provider he is okay to see, the last thing I want is another provider to think I'm okay with a client acting like that" ... so I contacted Gina and told her I did not want to give him an okay and she totally understood and that was the end of it.

I have to agree that I wish there was a few more options than just "okay" on P411 sometimes.

I have people from the beginning of time ask me for okays or a reference to join the site. I just email Gina and tell them the actual date I saw the person and she backdates it for me. My hero

I've never been in a situation where the guy was a total douche and didn't deserve an ok. If he didn't deserve a ok then I wouldn't give him one and would have no problem explaining why he didnt get an ok from me.

Oooooh SNL. That's why your first name is "Sweet."

I asked for an OK, even if my "performance" was pathetic... Can you say, "slam, bam...?" Hell, for years I thought MSOG was something you got at a Chinese restaurnat...

I always received my okay - maybe the ladies felt sorry for me?

Just sayin'

Huck Originally Posted by urhuckleberry

Pitty?.... i cant see that. Id give an ok for a pathetic performance and him acting like a total gentleman than for a stellar performance and him acting like an ass. Originally Posted by LusciousLacy

Very true, this is not about performance, or any lack there of in the intimacy department. What I'm talking about is attitude, unwarranted rudeness, that fellow that feels he's 'entitled' and you're beneath him, douchbagness, or any other tomfoolery that has you shaking you head as he's leaving.

Nope can't say I have refused an ok. I usually give the guy an ok before he leaves my Incall.

Although I have no problem telling a guy no, its about safety and being comfortable and keeping the other ladies safe.

Funny thing about oks.

One guy could be sweet and gentlemen like. All a girl could ask for.
And that same guy could see someone else and just act a fool.

One guy could be sweet and gentlemen like. All a girl could ask for.
And that same guy could see someone else and just act a fool. Originally Posted by lisa.lisa0302

Or some gentlemen can be "sweet and gentlemen like" all the time, while there are those of us who act the fool all the time. Just being in the presence of a lady makes some of us into fools automatically.

If okays were based on performance not many of us would merit an okay.

Fancy, Karma is a ruthless bitch. Your little turd will have it bite him in the butt somewhere down the line.

I have not had to refuse anyone as an okay but as Lacy stated there were a few that just did not mesh or (were not so pleasent experiences) They were all safe and always had the donations correct so I had no reason not to. If I get a refrence request and I did not mesh/get along etc,I would just say he is safe and we had no problems yet I think he refers 'such and such" and I am not his cup of tea or flavour...

Too bad we donthave a "Okays Count" and "How many Sessions Count" We get 1 okay per gent and each visit repeated we "Update" yet when gents leave the site we lose our okay count and also it would seem kinda fun to keep track of total sessions since start date since There is a gent I see 3-4 times a month since the begin and I have no clue how many "visits" I have had...Also I have seen screened gents in doubles and off eccie that are not on P411 so I would prob have a pretty good count...But numbers really dont matter. It was just a quickie thought that raced through my head....

~Nitey Nite Peeps~ Happy EARLY "Humping day"

I have to agree that I wish there was a few more options than just "okay" on P411 sometimes.

Originally Posted by Missy Mariposa

I wish that too!!
Maybe that could be requested? They've been making changes and its been great! So maybe they would work on that?

Missy I agree. OKAY can mean anything, and what is OKAY to one girl may not be to another. That's why even when seeing a client has several okays, I always contact one or two of the girls to see what to expect.

My rule about OK's...If I would not see that client again (which is rare), I do not give an OK.

thanks ladies for your responses.. sorry that happened Fancy, you're a sweetie. Originally Posted by Luxury Daphne

....Fancy, Karma is a ruthless bitch. Your little turd will have it bite him in the butt somewhere down the line. Originally Posted by pyramider

Thank you both, and Ansley, too. I did relate my sad story to Gina, and FWIW, P411 removed my previous recommendation and has made some internal notes. (Too many complaints and I expect a gentleman's membership gets pulled.) However, he has 10 other okays, including one given since my bad experience with him. I guess this is a reminder that even good references on a screening service as reputable as P411 can't tell the whole story. It is, as alluringava pointed out, best to check a couple and not take a row of okays at face value.