charlestudor in RL is a (sexy) Freak!
SL thanks for the gent in you!
Ava, well, come (to Houston) Fuck me then!
It all works together or does it? They say for each action there is an equal opposite reaction. Is that true? Human nature and selfishness sure screws that up!
Reviews
There are several different ways to write a review. The most common is a positive YES review. Some are more detailed than others but they are positive and yes reviews none the less. Then you have the NO review. Negative in nature and again differing by the amount of detail. Then there is the Yes review but when you read it you question why it’s a yes. Things are mentioned that might certainly be over looked by other reviewers. I’m sure there are many different reasons why this happens.
I’ve done a few reviews in my time and it’s interesting to see the reactions. There are some that appreciate the information. Then there are those that question everything. Then there are the review bashers. You have your WK responses as well. It really doesn’t matter what you do when you write a review, someone will have a problem with it. We know there are guys who share the reviews with providers. We also know there are phony reviews. In most cases they are obvious. There are guys who will bash you and your style of review yet have none of their own.
SL Reaction: If you don’t have something helpful or constructive to say, how about you shut the fuck up! And how about we NOT beat up on newbies. Unless you’re just trying to make an ass of yourself, then send a PM if you think it’s that important. But to publicly ridicule a hobbyist who has taken the time to share his information is in poor taste. And Quaking is against the rules, leave that to the Mods. Maybe if more of us would be supportive, other hobbyist would be more inclined to write reviews. And that is why we are here, to share information.
Alerts
I’ve cruised through forums where the Alerts have had more posts than Coed. We all know there are prolific Alert posters. That is obvious. Hell they will even post second hand information. We also know that providers post alerts as a means of defending themselves against hobbyists. Some times warranted at times not.
SL Reaction: Legitimate helpful information to inform or educate fellow board members should be posted here. Take the rest of it to Coed. Half the shit is he said she said just the same. If you want to vent go to the respective private forms. Powder Room or Men’s Lounge.
Threats & Pissing Matches
Sometimes we just don’t agree on things. That’s just the way it is! And always will be! And that in its self is OK. But what’s up with the personal attacks? Arguing over the smallest of things. These people are labeled “haters”. Doesn’t really matter what you say, someone will want to shit in your Corn Flakes. For some reason they feel better about themselves. It’s as if ridiculing you makes them look better. Sadly, a very common occurrence.
SL Reaction: In most cases hit your “ignore button”. These haters are looking for a reaction. They want to mix it up with you. Sit back and laugh at them. Be patient, in a lot of cases someone will call them on they’re BS. If it gets real bad, let the Mods handle it. Slapping them with 5 points every time they open their ugly mouths will certainly put a hitch in their Getty up! ECCIE ADICT has mastered this way of dealing with this caliber of people. Keep in mind you can’t win with these people. They get the shit pointed out of themselves and just move on to the next ECCIE handle and start over. Doesn’t take long to figure out who they are!
Having Fun
We’re all here for many reasons. And the end of the day we all would like to enjoy our board experience. So don’t take some of this Crapola so seriously. Have fun and gleam what you wish from your endeavors. This a great place to learn, have fun and meet some pretty cool people. Realize that not everyone will be nice and this is certainly NOT the most important thing in your life. And remember, you can take everything I have mentioned here to Star Bucks with $3.00 and they will give you a large regular coffee with room for cream. Enjoy!
JUST SAYIN..... Originally Posted by Still Looking
Isn't there some rule about bumping your own thread when you don't think it's getting enough play????? Originally Posted by charlestudor2005See Charles Ali*Cat had a great post to share. At first I thought she was talking about me, then I reread it and it said "providers". I really had to think if I was a provider.... I get confused with the "tours" and all. Damn near scratched her off my T-Shirt list. Ahhhh but all is well. She makes a great point.... we've all (EA Exception "most all") said things perhaps we could have said differently or not at all. Guilty as charged.