Have you ever been passed?

BoomShakaLaka's Avatar
I dont see it rude at all. I let it be known up front that I am a big man because I know not all women are ok with that and while they are a provider they still have the choice.

She may be a blunt and to the point person, I personally think that not beating around the bush is a good trait,

Good luck in your endeavors
oldtiger's Avatar
Could her decline to host been more tactful? Perhaps. However, since no one here seems to know the individual, it is all speculation at this point. For all we know, this might have been the extent of her elocution, and what was said was the most polite way she could express herself. Again, all speculation. Personally, I would have been appreciative of her forthrightness and not having my precious time squandered.
nushi's Avatar
  • nushi
  • 04-18-2012, 02:04 PM
Provider: Tori, Tremendoustori

My exact text:

"Hi. Saw your bp ad and would like to meet. Me: white/Asian, 5-7, 150lbs."


Thanks for the community support.
flinde's Avatar
You gotta tell them what you got so you don't get passed.

I always say Hi this is flinde. I got 4 1/2 inches of semi hardness that will give you the most intense 45 seconds of your life.

Never fails.
levi tab's Avatar
You gotta tell them what you got so you don't get passed.

I always say Hi this is flinde. I got 4 1/2 inches of semi hardness that will give you the most intense 45 seconds of your life.

Never fails. Originally Posted by flinde
Oh gawd, the folks at the office are wondering why I'm laughing so damn hard ...

Thanks flinde
IM the one who told his a$s to pass, I go with my gut and my i sensed some bullsh*t
pickupkid's Avatar
Well maybe she could not screen you ...You don;t have any reviews...post some
It doesn't sound like anything more than spidey sense. Providers have just as much right to use it as any hobbyist does.

For the record, I've been "passed." It wasn't like this, though. Back when I lived in DFW, I made an appointment with a provider who gave me an address she said was in Keller...and no such place existed there. When I called her to ask if she meant FW, she essentially told me I was playing games. I later learned (via ECCIE) that she's known for being a bit of a flake.
italia's Avatar
Maybe she was around her boyfriend/lover that she felt he was looking over her shoulder so she said pass, or she got scared that her phone might get taken away from her by her lover so she could use some kind of great excuse.

TRUST ME I KNOW

when i had a lover and i allowed him to know what business i was in he constantly asked who it was texting me or if he was young or goodlooking, I had to ask for the gents age and if it was under a certain age i had to "PASS"...then i laughed at myself one day and said ur lazy ass lover isnt worth shit and trying to play the pimp part ha kick rocks I am my own P-I-M-P lol
Why would u bump a negative thread about you? People forgot about this 5 months ago.
italia's Avatar
Why would u bump a negative thread about you? People forgot about this 5 months ago. Originally Posted by atxdream

Who are you referring to??
italia's Avatar
Why would u bump a negative thread about you? People forgot about this 5 months ago. Originally Posted by atxdream
Never mind I see now lol I was like whoa ha ha
JohnnyYanks's Avatar
Why would u bump a negative thread about you? People forgot about this 5 months ago. Originally Posted by atxdream
Bad publicity is better than no publicity?
Shit at least she has a good memory.
IM the one who told his a$s to pass, I go with my gut and my i sensed some bullsh*t Originally Posted by tremendoustori
Why would u bump a negative thread about you? People forgot about this 5 months ago. Originally Posted by atxdream
Bad publicity is better than no publicity? Originally Posted by JohnnyYanks
Shit at least she has a good memory. Originally Posted by JSmith2010