Do ladies prefer regulars?

My guess is that most will tell you they prefer regulars, but, at the same time, they're either not cognizant of or are unwilling to do things that will enhance the likelihood that a client will become a regular. Originally Posted by Sir Lancehernot

true in many cases, unfortunately

I have noticed some of the ladies asking for 2-3 recent references (very recent), and others not so many.

If a large number is something that they are asking for, then would there be a slim chance that someone would be a regular? Originally Posted by billyg

I'm still trying to catch the correlation between how many references a lady asks for and regular clientele.

Whether you're her regular depends on a host of other things. Like, if you enjoy her enough to come back again as often as you can. You can still do that if you can first get through her screening with 2-3 references, and get the first meeting. And enjoy her.

I would second Lacy's answer for the amount of references. They're hard to get sometimes. It has nothing to do with making it hard for new clients. I'm pretty sure that ladies love regular clients. I know I do. Gotta get screened first though.

Another off point, I bet your expectations of a woman goes up if you have to go through FBI-type screening. I would think a guy would be mad as hell if she's mediocre...

I love my regulars! I'm always open to new friends and I always look forward to visits from my regular lovers

Thanks pyramider, can I use you as a reference? Originally Posted by monkmonk

You do so at your own peril.

I like either or but I perfere to screen as always if I have not had the chance to see u and or meet u wch ever.... depends i guess...

I'm gonna go with "yes" on the answer to this question.

A steady income stream combined with familiarity and LESS (not to be confused with zero) chance of shit going crazy... logic would dictate that this would be preferred.

I ask for 2-3 recent because a LOT can happen in a matter of 6 months. I have seen a few guys that were great with me 6 months ago when still new... and then turned into rude jerks later.

2-3 because often there is that provider who isnt reference friendly and wont return a reply for a reference... so to have the 3rd one helps speed up screening. Originally Posted by LusciousLacy

The rough part is those of us who hobby infrequently. I can have stretches where I haven't seen a single lady in 6 months, let alone 3. It all depends on what's going on in my life and if I'm in a relationship.

MonkMonk

Soooooo that was you leaving things at my incall. And all this time I blamed my monkey!!!

Spikebaby

The rough part is those of us who hobby infrequently. I can have stretches where I haven't seen a single lady in 6 months, let alone 3. It all depends on what's going on in my life and if I'm in a relationship. Originally Posted by Fort Worth Punk

Yea i have had several gentlemen who only hobby when they travel and its infrequent. Thats when i say carefully pic ur references! A girl with an outstanding reputation that you saw a couple times... prior to ur 6 month penis-cation.... works at times.

Of course we love regulars! I love being able to feel like I'm doing something right by having a gent that I've seen return. It's an even better feeling when touring and the same guy sees me when I come in town.

I welcome new guys to visit me, but the 2-3 reference requirement is to ensure that you're not bat shit crazy, stinky or a pain in the ass. If your references are still active and have solid reps than the 6 month rule can be waived, but I say 6 months because a lot of times people can FORGET who they saw and the reference will be invalid.

I love regular its make everything alot better when you know that person a little..

I total agree with u Sensualsanaa...

Also note that just because a client becomes a regular to a certain provider, doesn't mean that she is the only girl he sees.

I have regulars I have seen for almost 4 years who still use me for reference when I am not in town, so it's really no biggie. Originally Posted by SkylarCruzWantsYou

Very right on....

I'mma' say that it depends on the provider. Some of them seen to prefer irregulars over the regular variety. Different strokes...

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Well most of us are irregular ...

I think regulars make it easier. I like regulars because you get to know them and what they like .. therefore making it more pleasurefilled.