No, you actually CAN’T pay me to fake it…

Okay... as a woman in my 30's, I know how to have an orgasm. This means that if he can't make me orgasm from oral or sex, I know exactly how he can help me to orgasm. It can't hurt for the guy to ask what pushes her buttons either. But yes, I think a guy can tell the difference. And I don't ever want someone to have to wonder. I think it should be enjoyable for everyone. Originally Posted by Lil Oral Annie

Now that's a plan that will work....

If a guy want to make your day and you fake it your just teaching him how to do it wrong!

I agree wholeheartedly. This is the reason why I don't sit silently when you aren't doing it right (but I'm very sensitive so I don't have to fuss much ). I actually SEEK to have a good time... Originally Posted by Tiffani Jameson

Yeeeessss Tiff! My thoughts exactly! This is why I could not be in the category of faking. I see nothing wrong with giving a little direction when needed. I actually appreciate it when I hear things like "right there", "don't stop", "faster", etc. For some, there is a lot more enjoyment to be experienced than simply reaching the "O". I've had experiences in which I didn't "O" that have honestly left me completely satisfied and physically spent.

All the ladies fake for me. I for one appreciate it. I also appreciate the giggles when I undress, too.

I agree wholeheartedly. This is the reason why I don't sit silently when you aren't doing it right (but I'm very sensitive so I don't have to fuss much ). I actually SEEK to have a good time, and I've never been a good fit for those who have to see me as a sub-being in order to be okay with meeting me. Something in you should want us both to have a good time. Mind you, you set the tone, but I won't let you forget I'm on this ride with you.

From my standpoint, the chemistry we create is for that just-right amount of feeling to enjoy ourselves, and not be mad or sad about the choices we've BOTH made, seeing the fact that we BOTH have to go back to our normal lives. I would hope that meeting me not only solidifies your confidence in your decision-making skills, but makes you happier knowing you have an outlet for your desires.

Outdoorsman, you have actually HEARD someone say 'let's get this over with?' Priceless. Originally Posted by Tiffani Jameson

What she said!!

Okay... as a woman in my 30's, I know how to have an orgasm. This means that if he can't make me orgasm from oral or sex, I know exactly how he can help me to orgasm. It can't hurt for the guy to ask what pushes her buttons either. But yes, I think a guy can tell the difference. And I don't ever want someone to have to wonder. I think it should be enjoyable for everyone. Originally Posted by Lil Oral Annie

What she said, too!!

Yeeeessss Tiff! My thoughts exactly! This is why I could not be in the category of faking. I see nothing wrong with giving a little direction when needed. I actually appreciate it when I hear things like "right there", "don't stop", "faster", etc. For some, there is a lot more enjoyment to be experienced than simply reaching the "O". I've had experiences in which I didn't "O" that have honestly left me completely satisfied and physically spent.

Originally Posted by Lovelyelle_01

And you're very right. I'm having to change strategies on a couple of friends (sex addicts) for just such a mentality, to not be so 'O' centered during our time together. It's very important to focus on the journey and not just the destination.

Well its all about communications.....listen to what a woman says when your performing sex on her..watch her expressions, the way she moves her body and if you dont have a clue..ask !!
once you get to know each other you can give each other directions like softer , harder, slower, faster , etc...and by all means be soft and easy unless you are told something different and no teeth or biting.

If you have to ask then more than likely you missed the mark I just think a woman body does not lie regardless of what her mouth maybe screaming Originally Posted by Thatdude

Yes, like if she's as dry as a desert down there, chances are, she should be slippery when wet LOL when she has a real O

:P

Yes, like if she's as dry as a desert down there, chances are, she should be slippery when wet LOL when she has a real O

:P Originally Posted by alluringava

From Experience you are 100% RIGHT!

God forbid if say, a bat flew out of there when she had the big O.

God forbid if say, a bat flew out of there when she had the big O. Originally Posted by alluringava

LMAO, Ava!!!

God forbid if say, a bat flew out of there when she had the big O. Originally Posted by alluringava

I have a little Louisville slugger for you Ava!

This should be good! Let me have it Ava and put some stank on it! LOL

Sorry guys, but NO WAY am I faking it. Of course, I’d rather get off every time. But, if I don’t, it doesn’t mean that I didn’t have a good time. I could never set myself up for future frustration. I’ve been pretty lucky so far, and I have no doubt that it’s because I simply refuse to lie about it.

Amen. I refuse to lie, I think it's downright insulting.

I don't see the point of faking anything. I also have had a GREAT time having wild, unbridled sex without having an O. I am well known in my part of the hobby as being a squirter, there have been a few times when it didn't happen. Most of the time, it DOES happen! I think its because of the excitement of meeting someone new. And I don't have a problem telling my partner right where the sweet spot is!
I came into the hobby late in life and I am sure making up for lost time! I LOVE what I do!