Providers weight, age, stats ???'s

Ansley, I am starting to think that you may have been home sick the day they taught us how to lie about our age in the escorting 101 class.You are suppose to knock a few years off of your actual age not add them on.
In other words...You look way too young. Originally Posted by Becky

Thank you very much Becky. As always you are so kind.

I know I glean more from a photo than I can from mere stats. One gal that's 5'7"/135/36c can be built very different from another even if the stats are wholly accurate. Of course, then you shift focus to the veracity of the photo...

This is where reviews and feedback from others gives this site it's value. The more information available, the more incentive providers (and clients) have to be honest. If a girl purports to be a spinner and she's not, she turns away the guys wanting a spinner (via poor feedback) and also doesn't serve herself well by not marketing toward the guys who don't care for a spinner build.

I'm 43. As a general rule, I try to book providers no more than 7 years younger than me. That means 36.

When a 40 year old woman lists herself as 30; she doesn't show up on my searches. She's excluded almost as effectively as if she were 99.

I say "general" rule because I have booked some ladies with younger stats because they impressed me as being exceptionally wise for their age.

Of course, it turned out most of the time they actually were within my age range and had misrepresented themselves as younger.

I DO realize that most guys go for younger ladies and so, on average, misrepresenting age pays dividends. (So long as the looks support the claim.) Nobody ever went broke catering to such things.

But at the same time; I get a bit perturbed by the practice because it seems its practitioners are blissfully unaware that there are hobbyists out there they are missing due to those same misrepresentations.

Ansley, I am starting to think that you may have been home sick the day they taught us how to lie about our age in the escorting 101 class.You are suppose to knock a few years off of your actual age not add them on.
In other words...You look way too young. Originally Posted by Becky

Shhhh!! Don't ruin her game.

At first I thought it would be a great thing to be starting the business so young, but it definitely does have its disadvantages. People pass over the twenty-somethings frequently, and most often those people are the older and wiser ones. Unfortunately, those are the ones I want to see!

Being 24, I would add a few years on to my actual age if I chose to be dishonest. I am not doubtful that it would come back to bite me in the tush, though, because people always guess younger based on my looks alone. Luckily, as soon as I open my mouth, I am not seen as an immature kid anymore. Oh goodness, that did sound crass, didn't it?

i actually change my weight when my weight chganges by 7 or more pounds. my pics r up to date as well. age...ok i fudge by just a few but thats from my own insecurities! i would hate to have a gentleman be upset when i answer the door. i always hope he thinks im better than he had anticipated. and heres a tip...the cup size/breast size is A,B,C,DD (me!). the number 34, 36, 38 is the inches around. so if im 34 dd u can tell i am small frame and 115 is a good weight n 40dd is a bigger frame and probably not 115 pounds!? just my opinion! hope tht helps!?

it would be ok if the client "fudged
' just a bit and said there was 400 in the envelope even though there was only 350, little white lie no one gets lied to or misled right

Yes, that's the way it works. That way I can keep fudging on my age. Originally Posted by Ansley

Because you, Ms. China Doll, are very mature and someone I'd try to book without regard to general rules.

Oh, Laurentius....if we were to meet, you might not find me so mature when your presence turned me into a giddy little schoolgirl!

I've decided my final opinion on this matter. I think it's ok for the providers lying about their weight and age as long as it is done within reason. If a lady's true weight is going to make the men think that she is larger than she is, then posting a lower number might actually help the guys. People never believe me when I tell them my true weight because the presence of all of my man muscle makes the number misleading.
Given the tactless nature that many people have, if our numbers are not believable, we will find out. In that case, we'd best change them.

Yes, that's the way it works. That way I can keep fudging Originally Posted by Ansley

Fudge???!! Did someone say fudge? Yummm. I'll take that any day.

At first I thought it would be a great thing to be starting the business so young[Being 24], but it definitely does have its disadvantages. People pass over the twenty-somethings frequently, and most often those people are the older and wiser ones. Unfortunately, those are the ones I want to see! Originally Posted by China Doll

I saw one provider about your age. 2nd worst experience I ever had (the worst was an NCNS). She showed up 40 minutes late, brought her Aunt Flo, did a slam bam than you sir and left 20 minutes later taking the 1 hour fee.

So I started a thread about it on the MotherBoard. The majority of advice I got from both hobbyists and providers alike was to skip the girls in their 20s. Haven't booked one since. Figured it was pretty good advice.

18 yrs and 70 Lbs are the default settings. When I see those I PM the Lady through her showcase and let her know. You could help her and me by doing the same.

Chipper Originally Posted by chipper

Indeed, please. There must be some glitch in the system, however, as I filled mine out and originally the right stats were showing for a long while, then while updating something else I noticed that they had since defaulted. I corrected it, but wondered who had changed it. I look pretty good for a chick whose seen the second anniversary of her 25th birthday, but not THAT good. And at 6 ft tall, if I weighed 70 lbs I'd look like a flag pole with my bra waving in the breeze.

Originally posted by Charlestudor:
"So I started a thread about it on the MotherBoard. The majority of advice I got from both hobbyists and providers alike was to skip the girls in their 20s. Haven't booked one since. Figured it was pretty good advice."

The majority? I guess it's a bigger problem than even I realized.

Originally posted by Charlestudor:
"So I started a thread about it on the MotherBoard. The majority of advice I got from both hobbyists and providers alike was to skip the girls in their 20s. Haven't booked one since. Figured it was pretty good advice."

The majority? I guess it's a bigger problem than even I realized. Originally Posted by China Doll

Majority. That is the majority of people who posted in the thread. Yes, there were differences of opinion. The provider who did that had a pretty good rep so there were some WK responses. But getting burned like that really makes one cautious.

Originally posted by Charlestudor:
"So I started a thread about it on the MotherBoard. The majority of advice I got from both hobbyists and providers alike was to skip the girls in their 20s. Haven't booked one since. Figured it was pretty good advice."

The majority? I guess it's a bigger problem than even I realized. Originally Posted by China Doll

Do not worry China Doll most men can see how mature you are by the way you handle yourself here. Being a mature 20 something is alot like being a hot 30/40 something. Both women offer the best of both worlds, and will easily stand out in this business.

Originally posted by Becky:
"Do not worry China Doll most men can see how mature you are by the way you handle yourself here. Being a mature 20 something is alot like being a hot 30/40 something. Both women offer the best of both worlds, and will easily stand out in this business."

Thank you! That is a huge compliment coming from you. As I said before, I cannot blame anyone for discriminating against age groups, especially because Charlestudor is right in saying that "getting burned makes one cautious." Even though I don't have the age requirement, I obviously have had unproportionally negative experiences with young guys. So, naturally, when I am talking to a young guy....those experiences come to mind.